@thechrishinton: Most people are not looking for love. They are looking for relief. This video breaks down the difference between unconditional care and conditional romantic participation, and why unmet expectations destroy relationships. #relationships #attachmentstyles #selfawareness #HealingJourney #relationshipadvice

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wonderlust_alchemy
Jess :
Unconditional love is NOT unconditional acceptance.
2026-05-27 16:39:37
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amandasreynolds
Amanda S Reynolds :
People fall in love with their idea of what a person could become in their thoughts, they want to change a person. When they realize they can’t that’s when they realize its a desire and not love
2026-05-27 22:04:47
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kevinn.costne
Kevinn Costne :
So true 💯
2026-06-07 21:08:55
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aprilrichey335
AprilinSpringtime :
This absolutely helps clarify my duality when I struggle with connection with my spouse but still care about them. They broke my trust and my romantic feelings have disappeared but I do truly love them and want what is best for them.
2026-05-28 20:35:40
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buehner3
Connie :
I give up. I’m just going to love my cat. 🤭 The message is spot on. The truth hurts sometimes.
2026-05-28 13:34:00
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darrelldonaldson3
darrelldonaldson3 :
Chris I just want to stay thank you for your words I have your book as well and you’ve helped me! So keep going big fan
2026-06-07 05:13:45
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nicoleaclement
Nicole Clement :
You need to be WHOLE and COMPLETE by yourself and meet someone . That way what someone does or doesn’t do won’t matter because you will still be whole either way.
2026-05-28 20:17:50
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breezzieb1
BreezzieB :
Do you come to Michigan? Definitely picking up your book
2026-05-28 11:46:34
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diyork51
diyork :
You are spot on!! I understand exactly what you said. Thank you and I love your book. It has been so helpful!! 👏👏
2026-05-27 23:42:35
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feleciabunnell
Felecia Bunnell :
Absolute facts
2026-05-28 02:18:19
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deb39240
Deb :
Just recently
2026-05-28 01:20:01
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svtravelchiclori
svtravelchiclori :
This is amazing and so true! Thank you!
2026-05-29 00:47:55
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stephmarie21657
👑 𝕊𝕥𝕖𝕡𝕙𝟝𝟟🦋👑 :
sometimes if you truly love someone you need to let them go so they can find happiness.
2026-05-29 07:10:41
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neeter43
💜Anita💜 :
💜 So true
2026-05-28 01:13:07
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brantonli316
brantonli316 :
the ick is bad
2026-05-30 16:45:05
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marlenebrown276
marlenebrown276 :
very great advice ...
2026-05-27 22:06:53
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turquoise745
Caroline :
it is probably better to stay single.
2026-05-29 02:25:32
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em_still69
Emma :
Gonna buy the book 👏
2026-05-27 21:45:57
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cmsos2
Corny :
Holy shit. Mic drop….
2026-05-28 02:26:09
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tennesseerealtor_foryou
Kym_K-i-m_with a Y :
This is sooo true. And actually it caused me to follow you!
2026-05-28 02:31:41
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rikkirenee0
Rikki Renee :
Obsessed with your content. I listen deeply to every word, just to understand more and more. THANK YOU!
2026-05-27 18:50:33
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amandatx_livin
amandatx_livin :
I was just thinking this today! I was like: I keep thinking I want to be married but I was like: I just want to be cared for and have joy and companionship. So many ways to have that!
2026-05-28 03:53:31
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isabellacolfescu
Isabella Colfescu :
Im listening with my ears not with my triggers.
2026-05-28 19:24:05
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pariswixon
ParisW :
Lots to unpack in that message! Love it! 💕
2026-05-28 02:56:39
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marykewasserman
Maryke :
When you've healed your fears and wounds and realize that it is your own responsibility to identify and meet your own expectations. It opens the door to be able to accept the value the other person has to offer without adding strain and pressure to the relationship. Then if both can be on that level unconditional love can enter the conversation.
2026-05-28 03:29:53
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