@melhamlett: Are you really in love with that man or the country or place (or fill in the blank) and hiding behind him bc it seems easier or safer? I promise you, it’s NOT! Please be careful yall. patriarchy is everywhere and there is no escaping it by moving #dating #90dayfiance #france #decentermen #datingabroad @Melanie Hamlett
no problem lady, I romanticize men in another universe, let say Firelord Zuko
2026-05-30 09:02:57
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username1111 :
90 day fiancé taught me a lot lol 😂
2026-05-29 05:17:27
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Taylor :
Fell in love after moving to Germany. Now married with a child and never felt more trapped in my life. I can never leave the country. Stuck in the town we started in because divorce law is so insane. Should have stayed single having fun gallivanting thru Europe!
2026-05-28 23:14:09
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Sonali :
My friend decided to move to Germany after marrying her German boyfriend she met when we were in Thailand— we both were there working as foreigners. When she finally moved, she did so with a job and work visa. Long story short, she’s happily married with a baby boy and a top finance job. It’s been five years she got married and moved, and still not on a spouse visa. She’s a LSE graduate, she doesn’t need a man to move to different countries. I’m so proud of her! The moral of the story, develop yourself to be truly independent 🥰
2026-05-30 17:18:41
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user1493634326006 :
it’s my italian romance or nothing at all
2026-05-29 09:23:23
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shevi :
I moved to Germany for my now-husband but I wouldn't recommend it to anyone else, I got lucky 😭
2026-05-27 20:33:43
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aladoelizabeth8 :
This is why I love social media
2026-05-30 12:22:59
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Mel - Astrologer 🪐✨ :
My travelling romances were the best!!!!! Knowing it’s gunna end but going all in with the passion and being in the moment 😂
2026-05-30 08:31:39
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Jaylene Beligan :
90 day finance core
2026-05-28 01:31:34
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Reina_Esther :
it's fantasy. 😔
2026-05-28 11:57:32
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Beatnik :
Hmmm as a person wanting leave and try international dating …specifically France. I am taking this as a sign lol.
2026-05-28 23:32:39
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Odion ✨ :
More people need to watch 90 Day Fiancé.
2026-05-29 09:08:20
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Sgt. Sugar💥 get hired, NO BS :
Holy fuck this content is worth millions!!
2026-05-28 05:40:07
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R a c h e l :
I won’t lie Mel. I’m desperately hoping to get an EU “green card” but I’m not looking for romantic love through it. 😅
2026-05-27 20:25:46
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LaDorée :
I save the romance for when I watch my K dramas as soon as I turn the TV off I’m back to reality😂
2026-05-30 19:14:38
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hotcoolndsexy :
Wrong ! I never wanted to move to India but I have bc I love my man!
2026-05-30 17:31:45
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Ash :
I moved abroad for me, and ended up getting married here. but if things dont work out, ur right bc if you have kids you are there for life..so def have to be prepared for that reality.
2026-05-30 20:52:17
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Marshall Town :
thank you for giving me a reality check!
2026-05-30 09:33:04
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Bookish :
Me going to Scotland to search for Jamie aFraser 😭🤣
2026-05-27 23:11:07
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citomond600 :
Yes, do not be based off movies, television, and comic books; or what you learned in school. That goes for any place.
2026-05-29 01:33:29
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Cari :
I moved to the EU with a boyfriend but was also moving for work. I dumped the guy kept the job and bought myself an apartment. 10/10 recommended doing it on your own 💗
2026-05-31 11:44:27
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Meli🐻⭐️🍋 :
Moved to Italy for a year by myself, met my ex and then did long distance for 2 years and it is true that I didn’t see some red flags bc of our cultural differences and distance 😭 oh well we live and we learn 😅
2026-05-28 07:56:08
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user536904 :
U know what- good advice 🥺
2026-05-31 14:32:14
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