@rewirewithrach: For a fearful avoidant in early dating there tends to be this “all or nothing” “forever or danger” response that acts as the line of no return. If you’re in this stage and you’re struggling with worrying about repeating the same patterns but also your nervous system is getting activated AF and you need support navigating this in a grounded, intentional way … I can help. Feel free to book a 1:1 and let’s approach dating with intention and choice and rewire these relational patterns in real time. LINK IN BIO #dating #Love #relationshiptok #rewirewithrach #fypシ
This is so frustrating because there’s so much guilt and shame. Just as the foundation starts forming, there’s an extreme desire to totally tear it down. And if they do return after you break up with them, the “innocence” and early joy is already a bit lost. And I feel like their trust is broken. It’s a constant rebuilding. It’s hard to be mindful in the moment. I def notice it’s worse during the luteaul phase and when there’s not enough nervous system care (lack of sleep, too much scrolling, etc.)
2026-05-27 20:56:09
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Michi Rodríguez :
The way my brain chemistry was altered when a coach said to me “vulnerability is earned”
2026-05-29 00:32:59
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B :
This explained SO much. My therapist was saying very similar about my breakup and hearing your perspective put it all together I’m like oh yeah, i see that in him now. Thank you
2026-05-27 21:25:45
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Agreekable :
How do I support him? He’s pulled back for the last week, we have texted daily but I can feel the shift. I’m meant to see him tonight but he cancelled the last time. I’m constantly anxious and waiting for him to just discard me.
2026-05-31 22:11:00
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Selsol88 :
For the 4-6 weeks mark is where it all started unravelling, I became TERRIFIED and started sabotaging — I’ve done extensive therapy and somatic healing work over the last 2 years because the last one really hurt, now that I’ve been feeling good and regulated I’m almost scared to put myself out there again because the memory of how it felt is so visceral
2026-05-27 20:46:32
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Bob spacedenier :
if its all or nothing for them then how come they get hot and cold sometimes literally in just minutes?
2026-05-27 22:37:47
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