@anxiouslyalej: Woman to woman, leave the first time #feminineenergy #relationships #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #womensdatingadvice

trxshalou :

100%. I decided to stay with my husband. He did it again. Been single a while and my boyfriend just cheated. I walked away and never looked back. No conversation, just gone.

Sarah’s time to bee 🐝 :

It destroyed me 10yrs ago… I stayed but he did it again. Divorced now. Still very broken 💔😔

evelyncastillo960 :

you never forget. itll always be there thru every truth. every moment. it will be there

Feral Goddess :

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sparklysusan :

100000% this is such good advice. I stayed for a year. Tried to see if things could get better. They did get better but never enough to breathe easy. Two years later now and I’m so thankful I’m out of that place.

maria12cara :

You are spot on.

🧿khamerernebty I🧿 :

I love me too much to put myself thru tht.

Rachael :

he did it again happened twice second time I left never to return

Heather Hanlan :

I left. it has been so difficult. But not as difficult as it would have been to stay.

drtsulli :

U are spot on

motleyc0 :

Success🍀 :

Yes

Stephanie :

Truth happened to me!!

💁🏽‍♀️ :

Cant agree more ✨

Laurie :

Agreed!

realtorgirlwithcurls :

YES!!!

Yoana :

this is only when you haven't got conversation about it and not forgiven

Ambi :

The double life thing is ACTUAL FACTS. Leave. For you mental and physical health. Leave. ❤️‍🩹

Alicia :

1000000% I stayed & I didn’t tell anyone what happened. Then I started emotional eating & gained 70lbs in one year. My fight or flight was constantly on alert and my nervous system was shot. I was miserable & lost who I was as a person. It took me YEARS after I finally left to find myself again.

Chrislarue :

Then you also have to wonder if he says he’s going to the store, is he really going to the store ?

erin0cn :

You try to forgive but you never forget. Leave now

seekeroflight :

100%!! those random thoughts are horrible. the constant wondering whats next. never again

hannah.lines8 :

When the trust has gone, it’s gone for good & unfortunately that goes with you to your next relationships 😔 The sooner you split the quicker you can start to heal, it’s not what you want but you will eventually. The only thing worse then feeling like you wasted 20 years (for me) is wasting 20 years & one day or week or month ❤️

disGrace25 :

PERIOD. EXACTLY RIGHT. DEADASSSSS

sun_owl :

Don’t do it, it won’t get better and you will always remember.. it’s not worth your mental health