I’ve been married almost 26 years. I am just beginning to decenter him and starting to center myself. I’m getting ready to go out of town to visit our family. I told him that I was only packing for myself. If he wants to go, he would need to make sure everything else was packed. He decided not to go.
2026-05-28 00:22:14
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spraynslaycleaning :
Just wanted to let you know your videos has started me on recentering myself. So grateful for you and what you post!!
2026-05-27 23:35:41
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EC :
I’m 6 months in and it’s ending. But I am not abandoning myself anymore.
2026-05-28 06:13:46
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Brooke Weston :
I’m trying to decenter him but have no friends or family outside of him. I obviously know I need to work on that but find it very lonely to disconnect from him more.
2026-05-28 06:13:24
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kezzie_b :
I’ve started doing this the past couple of years and it’s definitely been difficult on my marriage. My husband “goes along with it” but he also isn’t “doing the work” from what I can tell. It seems he’s stepped in where I’ve stepped away but he isn’t happy about it. It seems he’s doing it more because he doesn’t want to lose me versus seeing me actually be happy. Maybe that’s to be expected?
2026-05-27 23:50:40
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smeagolfeet :
Do you ever feel resentful towards him since this change in him was always possible and it took you stepping away for it to finally happen?
2026-05-28 02:39:43
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Sara Evans :
What did working on himself look like? Im so curious
2026-05-28 05:58:43
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lostmyaccount456 :
Met w trainer today after the last video I watched where u made the time for yourself. I haven't been taking very good care of me for a long time. I'm so ready to find myself again
2026-05-28 16:22:10
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KEMI :
You are so pretty!
2026-05-27 23:52:42
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Amber :
This is such important info for women. Thank you for using your platform to share this 🤍
2026-05-28 00:03:55
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JoAnn__no_e :
This could be my story, except the part where the husband works on himself and changes.
2026-05-28 01:16:20
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mimi :
I love seeing all these inspired women in the comments centering themselves. its healing my soul!!
2026-05-29 01:36:22
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cowskidschaos :
A month or two into therapy, I came to a realization that working on myself might cost me my marriage. During my next session, my therapist said I arrived at that realization pretty quickly. We are still in process of changing and I have been very frank that if he doesn’t grow with me, he can leave. I don’t think he believed me at first and he resisted but after the last year, he has started making noticeable changes. It’s been a slow road and the hardest thing has been changing myself and willing to lose my marriage and destroy my stability.
2026-05-28 06:33:46
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Just being honest :
Your videos are so valuable. It’s too late for me (I bailed), but I know you’re helping many 🫶🏻
2026-05-28 14:07:33
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Kellie :
single never married no kids by choice two major relationships under my belt. this information is so valuable Kelley. ✨✨
2026-05-28 00:09:25
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Beth Steinkuehler :
This series you’re doing has come at a perfect time for me. I feel like I was already starting to decenter from my husband and center myself already and I came across your content. It’s been quite helpful so far. Thank you. I appreciate you.
2026-05-28 05:48:01
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Michelle :
thank you for sharing this ❤️
2026-05-28 00:01:48
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Nicole | AuDHD Home Educator :
This is my story too. I’m at the point where I’m centering myself as a matter of survival. I have had numerous health issues, not just because of centering my husband but because of always self abandoning and putting everyone else’s needs first. I refuse to do it any longer.
2026-05-28 08:06:32
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sarahkwhitaker :
I like “self-reclamation” 😍
2026-05-28 03:01:13
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Crys Cain :
Can confirm: this process ended my eleven year marriage. Worth it.
2026-06-04 20:34:44
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Asha Rising :
I love your honesty
2026-05-30 03:52:53
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Anthony Mary :
Can you talk on the kids aspect, how did you handle the kids when you are the default parent ❤️
2026-05-31 09:18:10
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K :
This is SO helpful, can you share some examples of behaviors of yours that you changed?
2026-05-29 01:30:39
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aajqjqoqkqjansb :
Do you feel emotional safe with your husband after centering yourself?
2026-05-29 06:09:03
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