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cortnimccabe :
Facing this right now. Nice guy just no emotions… 💔
2026-05-29 12:26:12
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Truly Blessed Tara 😇 :
I had to come to the decision to walk away even though my heart is breaking. Loving someone’s potential will never be enough. Alignment and capacity has to be a two way street in order to have a safe and loving relationship.
2026-05-29 16:49:30
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Bob Samuelson :
should show your love for the one you are with.
2026-07-02 17:08:37
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🦥 :
What if he blames me for making him feel like hes not enough. He keeps on going back and forth about how he also did alot of good stuff ad questioning me why i focus on the negative side of the story or the «problems» and tbh this is the reason why, he says he understand but then do nothing, or when he does, hes not consistent. Ive learned to accept that hes just not capable and that that doesnt mean that he doenst love or care for me, but then why blame me for hurting? Why is it on me again?
2026-06-23 00:52:18
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ArtKnitExpressions :
Facts. sometimes relationships like this or connections don't have the capacity to maintain what you require. I learned a lot about not asking the why's. And gaining more clarity and wisdom about myself and what I need. Can that person really meet you in what your need? Are you willing to meet him right where he is at? What if he never changes or just can't grow. Some ppl just stay stuck. It brings a lot of emotional work to come with clarity and understand that you have matured and outgrown stagnation.
2026-06-23 07:34:10
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Heather Barrington :
I also have a God that can produce a “Suddenly” moment that we can not do ourselves. What may look like the impossible is never out of reach for God to fix if it’s in his will! 🙏🏻❤️
2026-05-29 05:52:37
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V :
been in the same situation where he chooses to lose me than face the conflict between us
2026-05-29 05:42:56
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Kathryn 🥰 :
my case right now 🤝 whenever we have a fight I am the one to soften first, repair,explain or reach out to make peace. Recently we had a fight and he shifted the blame to me refusing to own his part , I also refused to apologize , soften first or repair the relationship. I need him to learn to pick up and repair our relationship when something happens. It requires mutual effort to build, its not a building site he can visit occasionally 🤝
2026-05-30 10:19:56
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Himii :
So what to do? Leave him?
2026-06-18 07:42:05
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T O N Y A🌹TTShop Deals :
15 years together and just now figuring out this is why my mental health is destroyed. I'm staying and working on things but if you have the choice please please don't put yourself through this
2026-05-30 15:26:21
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Aga :
Heartbreaking truth.... 💔
2026-05-29 15:31:02
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🍒Norma :
Omg eye opener!! You are describing my husband of 35 yrs 🥺
2026-05-29 12:03:04
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hzlynz ໒꒱ :
@Truly Blessed Tara 😇: I had to come to the decision to walk away even though my heart is breaking. Loving someone’s potential will never be enough. Alignment and capacity has to be a two way street in order to have a safe and loving relationship.
2026-07-01 23:42:19
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Julianna ❤️ :
Yes ... I finally understand avoidant... anxious etc etc and I'm sad ... nothing is going to change and this hurts
2026-05-28 23:28:04
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MichelleE 🇨🇦 :
if I explain it better. if im more patient. if I love him harder. all that just wasted more of my time. more time added to what he had already stolen. moving on is the only real answer. the only way.
2026-06-08 20:31:29
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True Taurus :
realized this the hard way.
2026-05-29 07:37:28
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STEVIE :
This is the best read that has ever popped up on my fyp and I always thought that Tictoc was useless. This is something God wanted me to see to help me. He has watched me hurt for almost 6yrs.
2026-05-29 14:29:41
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Marilyn Alboro :
Having a partner is like having a best friend, you can share your stories about what is going on, and what is happening in your life. Someone you can always rely on whenever you're down and everyone turns their back on you . Someone who will fight for you and be on your side, without hesitation.Someone who will make you smile whenever you're sad .Someone who will say you're the most beautiful girl even though you felt less attractive. Someone who can keep your peace of mind and making sure nobody will destroy it, someone that you can be with at the end of your breath or until the day you die. Don't force that "SOMEONE" to change for you. They will changed their self voluntarily just to keep you and to be with you until the end. 😊
2026-06-01 06:51:27
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Jennifer Florian-Gon :
This hit home. I see his struggles with wanting to make it work but not knowing how. I am beyond exhausted holding the relationship together.
2026-06-20 17:11:10
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Coffee :
that's why I walked away...we probably needed the space. he needs to grow. and i think he can do it only when I'm not in the picture. :')
2026-06-23 11:57:50
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Gely C. :
Bruuuhhhh
2026-06-22 20:25:52
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yourmsj_ :
I stayed, I forgive, I gave chances while him, he gave up, he got tired, he let go 💔
2026-05-30 16:06:25
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bear🐻 :
woah u describing my situation so accurate
2026-06-26 05:34:22
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Westbrooks :
He’ll automatically be this for who he wants to be for .. that’s why it was so hard for me 🥺
2026-06-29 02:21:05
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