@missslado: I’m so curious because my family was never that strict about it! #culture #discussion

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hmm58451
Hmm :
We don't go in purses and we don't set purses on the floor/ ground.
2026-05-29 23:25:47
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dahliagrl1
dahliagrl :
My mom would never ask us to go in her purse. It's always "bring me my bag."
2026-05-29 01:58:44
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eibca
E.I.B.C.A Consulting :
I'm African American and I've always taught my children that we respect each other's privacy. If I ask my children to get something from my purse, they will - but for whatever reason my son is never comfortable rummaging through my purse. It's never been something my children have gotten in trouble for doing or not doing. I think it's a case by case thing
2026-06-14 03:10:20
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jksluv3
jksluv3 :
I’m African American and a woman. I was never allowed to go in my mom’s purse and neither was my brother. We had to give her her purse.
2026-05-29 02:11:12
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healthy.hair.first
healthy.hair.first :
Maybe it’s a regional thing. I was raised in NY and I never heard of this. I had no rules regarding my sons going into my purse and neither did my mother.
2026-05-28 23:54:48
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ife_09
Ife :
I’m African and I was always in my mums purse and eating her snacks and spraying her perfume
2026-05-29 11:45:34
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ldub49
Blonde bombshell49 :
Yes I’m black American this is true
2026-05-28 23:52:58
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lovely_me77
lovely_me77 :
I’m AA from DC and yea this is a cultural thing my grandma taught me the same thing.
2026-05-29 00:47:11
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talkingtothescree
tw :
This was a great diaspora question! I'm African-American, from the south (TX), and sometimes we could go in our mom's purse, sometimes she'd ask for the whole bag.
2026-05-29 13:25:38
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iladred
iladred :
I dont go in my mom's purse...my sister's purse...my daughter's purse...NEVER!!!! When my mom died I was going through her things. I left the purses for my big sisters to check.
2026-05-29 17:08:13
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neoturally
Nandy 🌸💖✨ :
I’m South African and I am hearing this for the first time
2026-05-31 08:47:25
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user3104896417227
user3104896417227 :
I'm East African and I don't go into people's purses ever. That's how I was raised.
2026-05-28 22:01:02
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ladyjay100
LadyJay77 :
I am a black American but my ancestry comes from the south. yes my mom had that rule.
2026-05-29 05:09:37
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ufb_mu09
Malaïka🇨🇩🏳️‍🌈 :
I am a woman and Congolese (DRC) and my mom will definitely be mad if either my brothers (I have 4), and I didn't bring exactly what she asked.
2026-05-30 14:18:12
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ck_ta_martin
Momma T :
Just FYI you’re a beautiful young lady 🥰
2026-05-30 18:23:25
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lakiiaiam
LaKiia :
Yeah...Not only cultural, but also generational. I was not allowed to go in my mother's purse.
2026-05-30 11:25:24
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cj224463
CJ :
That’s true
2026-06-12 23:11:13
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richard47_74
richard47_74 :
southern, Texas - Alabama
2026-05-29 01:08:07
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lanaiiryn
lana 🎀 :
I’m African and was taught not to go in purses either, to be fair I think this just varies from family to family.
2026-05-29 03:08:49
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jihill70
JoJo 021 :
This was a great cultural nuance, thx for sharing.
2026-05-30 11:08:52
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rosemary60evg
Rose :
I am East African(Somalian) and I would also refuse to go through someone's purse even with permission. I would just bring the purse to you, that's how I was raised.So it could just be how his family raised him. Even people from the same culture can have different family upbringing, every home is different.
2026-05-29 01:43:53
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thatnerdmur
Mur :
No you gotta bring the WHOLE purse! I don’t even go in my best friends/sister purse idc and I just ask for my purse
2026-05-29 13:54:52
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hbaf799
Hbaf799 :
I’m AA and from the south, Texas, and yes my son and husband never go in my purse. I really don’t care but my husband still refuses.
2026-05-29 05:33:47
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_solo_104
Solo_104 :
Originally it was considered bad luck. I think now it’s a respect thing
2026-05-28 23:46:26
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iknewagirlnamed_nikki
Maggie⫘ :
American here and yes that's a real thing
2026-05-29 01:44:29
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