@mommaandtones: He doesn’t just control the money. He controls the options. That’s why financial abuse feels so quiet at first… until you realize you need permission to survive. If he keeps you broke, guilty, dependent, or scared to spend money, that is not marriage. That is control. Comment CONTROL if this hit too close. #financialabuse #toxicmarriage #emotionalabuse #mamatones #womenhealing
Never had a joint account with mine...and im glad i never did...it was easy when i filed divorce papers😊
2026-06-21 22:40:15
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_alifawntat :
Been living this for 13 years and it’s the whole reason I can’t leave because I can’t afford four kids on my own.
2026-05-31 03:54:16
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Daniel 💖 :
I also work and i live like this right now😥
2026-05-29 16:03:11
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Anna :
my marriage literally for 17 years now
2026-05-29 16:58:32
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Vero :
In it for 30 years. Out now on my own. Financial abuse sucks.💯
2026-06-21 17:50:13
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Amanda Hartzell :
been happening to me for 20 years
2026-06-19 07:00:51
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Lucy :
I suppose I'm lucky, my husband never ever questions how I spend money. Quite opposite, he constantly says " please go and spend some money on yourself" 🥰 he's a good man
2026-05-29 04:10:41
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_808 :
currently experiencing right now
2026-05-29 14:02:54
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Kitkat66 :
Been goin thru this 30 years 😡😡😡
2026-05-29 01:11:44
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Nikkii :
My life for the last 25 years.
2026-05-31 12:22:21
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Unique :
I walk away from everything/ wealth
2026-05-28 22:14:50
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Madamebrows :
I had to ask always, and then when I wanted to go to hairdresser hé said things like I already received money for groceries 🤐🫠
2026-05-29 21:32:46
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Bal Kaur :
I spent 25 years building a house and business and had kids with him but that's how l got treat, and in end l eventually walked away for everything
2026-05-29 18:37:54
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hecatesalchemist :
Stayed 14 years longer than I should 🥺
2026-05-29 06:15:20
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Rita Munguia❌ :
Money Money Money
2026-06-15 15:39:01
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jessicapedro481 :
😳Thanks
2026-06-21 14:45:58
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luvslake0 :
The best thing I ever did was open my own checking account to put my paycheck in. Has made a world of difference.
2026-05-29 21:17:25
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Lady Adnor :
Yep I have to ask for the debit card for EVERYTHING
2026-06-16 01:23:34
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mommyish :
but how do i leaveeeeeeee
2026-06-19 19:45:49
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Aaliyah's Glam Cart :
I've always been going through this.
2026-05-29 16:20:26
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Zee :
the best thing I did was taking back control of my money when we relocated.
2026-05-29 18:38:29
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toony :
My EX husband didn’t want me to work since he said it would stress me out & it would be better so I took care of the cooking & cleaning, I didn’t realize he was making me feel like a burden until you explained exactly what I lived I did try to find work but didn’t get any luck for years but still feeling small for needing basic things is the worst feeling ever
2026-06-19 16:38:51
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Hoosier Mama :
Happening to me now. Filed for divorce after 21 years.
2026-06-20 15:12:28
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