@mommaandtones: He doesn’t just control the money. He controls the options. That’s why financial abuse feels so quiet at first… until you realize you need permission to survive. If he keeps you broke, guilty, dependent, or scared to spend money, that is not marriage. That is control. Comment CONTROL if this hit too close. #financialabuse #toxicmarriage #emotionalabuse #mamatones #womenhealing

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sdca78
Lv56 :
Going through this now
2026-05-28 20:48:33
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stephensbrenda
user8739026397510 :
My husband got mad hearing this
2026-06-18 00:01:30
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rashida023
Rashida M ❌ :
Never had a joint account with mine...and im glad i never did...it was easy when i filed divorce papers😊
2026-06-21 22:40:15
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_alifawntat
_alifawntat :
Been living this for 13 years and it’s the whole reason I can’t leave because I can’t afford four kids on my own.
2026-05-31 03:54:16
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daniel.111333
Daniel 💖 :
I also work and i live like this right now😥
2026-05-29 16:03:11
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rosebella700
Anna :
my marriage literally for 17 years now
2026-05-29 16:58:32
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vgotani72
Vero :
In it for 30 years. Out now on my own. Financial abuse sucks.💯
2026-06-21 17:50:13
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amandahartzell6
Amanda Hartzell :
been happening to me for 20 years
2026-06-19 07:00:51
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lucynahemsley
Lucy :
I suppose I'm lucky, my husband never ever questions how I spend money. Quite opposite, he constantly says " please go and spend some money on yourself" 🥰 he's a good man
2026-05-29 04:10:41
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8_08luvies
_808 :
currently experiencing right now
2026-05-29 14:02:54
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kitkat6612
Kitkat66 :
Been goin thru this 30 years 😡😡😡
2026-05-29 01:11:44
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mrsbb1975
Nikkii :
My life for the last 25 years.
2026-05-31 12:22:21
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unique_2012_unique
Unique :
I walk away from everything/ wealth
2026-05-28 22:14:50
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madamebrowss
Madamebrows :
I had to ask always, and then when I wanted to go to hairdresser hé said things like I already received money for groceries 🤐🫠
2026-05-29 21:32:46
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1balkaur72
Bal Kaur :
I spent 25 years building a house and business and had kids with him but that's how l got treat, and in end l eventually walked away for everything
2026-05-29 18:37:54
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hecatesalchemist
hecatesalchemist :
Stayed 14 years longer than I should 🥺
2026-05-29 06:15:20
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ritamunguia
Rita Munguia❌ :
Money Money Money
2026-06-15 15:39:01
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jessicapedro481
jessicapedro481 :
😳Thanks
2026-06-21 14:45:58
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luvslake0
luvslake0 :
The best thing I ever did was open my own checking account to put my paycheck in. Has made a world of difference.
2026-05-29 21:17:25
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happy.parrots
Lady Adnor :
Yep I have to ask for the debit card for EVERYTHING
2026-06-16 01:23:34
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mommyishhhh
mommyish :
but how do i leaveeeeeeee
2026-06-19 19:45:49
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aaliyahsglamcart
Aaliyah's Glam Cart :
I've always been going through this.
2026-05-29 16:20:26
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zee597045
Zee :
the best thing I did was taking back control of my money when we relocated.
2026-05-29 18:38:29
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toongirl007
toony :
My EX husband didn’t want me to work since he said it would stress me out & it would be better so I took care of the cooking & cleaning, I didn’t realize he was making me feel like a burden until you explained exactly what I lived I did try to find work but didn’t get any luck for years but still feeling small for needing basic things is the worst feeling ever
2026-06-19 16:38:51
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soldwithzoe
Hoosier Mama :
Happening to me now. Filed for divorce after 21 years.
2026-06-20 15:12:28
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