@workwithshyla: #stitch with @Sarah the grass is green where you water it 🥰 #womanhood #beauty

lia :

but it’s so crazy too cause there isnt even anything wrong with how she looks and she wasn’t even asking advice on how to fit into beauty standards. she’s stating a fact on how there are certain beauty standards imposed on women and that if you don’t fit into those brackets (which most of the world doesn’t, especially because its usually eurocentric features and tiny bodies w curves in only very specific places) you won’t get the kind of attention she’s describing (usually from men) which is true! she might feel beautiful but still knows she does not fit into whatever the current definition of attractiveness is, and it’s so wild to see someone say that and a large amount of her comments is like okay well here is how you can change yourself to fit the expected mold so you CAN get that attention 😭😭😭 esp because she even says she’s okay with not getting it and she’s just observing