@lifeuncutpodcast: “I was sick of people telling me their opinion of why my choice was wrong”. @Ellie Gonsalves joins the podcast today and speaks about what made her write “the list” of 117 reasons she didn’t want to have kids of her own. Some reasons are light and jovial, others are really deep and personal and she sheds light on how invalidating it can feel to constantly have to explain yourself when you’ve chosen to be child free by choice. You can listen by searching life uncut wherever you get your podcast and on YouTube
That’s the least painful part (I gave birth without drugs twice). Raising them, way more painful.
2026-05-29 07:50:23
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Julie Van Driel :
I'm 54 and I do not regret not having children 🌷
2026-05-29 14:19:15
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Michaela Anna Katrina :
Thankyou so much for this! I totally relate ❤️❤️
2026-06-03 22:28:22
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Mrs Black :
Don't blame u it's so painful lol
2026-05-29 00:36:31
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user1175889219460 :
I hope to live long enough to see a time where 'I don't want to' is enough of a reason
2026-05-31 13:13:03
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chelsdev93 :
Had 4 kids and never a split hole to hole and don’t know many ppl who have had that lol so silly that part
2026-06-04 00:41:36
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emma :
I have given birth twice and gone through severe life events that you need to recover from (hard and is stalled when you have two kids to focus on too plus life) after and even now people ask when we will have a third. like I've only just started sleeping through the night after a solid nine years. I'm tired. why is it a thing!
2026-06-01 09:10:48
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hey.its.dee :
Makes sense. Having kids in this day and age is not like it used to be. Sounds like she has really considered her decision
2026-05-28 23:52:04
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I am Jessica Collins :
I was just watching a video about two videos before this where they were talking about vaginal prolapse so it is a thing the lady not wanting a child is her prerogative. End of story no woman should be pushed into something they don’t want to do.
2026-05-30 01:20:49
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Rainy :
This world I wouldn’t want ti bring kids into it
2026-05-30 12:02:58
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Diks :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-03 09:13:33
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