H4rvey :
It really doesn't matter if you're "ugly" or "hideous " or whatever else in between. You might see it as the most awful trait about yourself but positive and negative traits aren’t the same for everyone. Sometimes, the things one person doesn’t like about you are the exact things someone else will love. For example, if someone is really energetic and outgoing, one person might say, “They’re kind of annoying,” while another might say, “I love how cheerful they are, it makes me happy.” It’s the same person, just seen in different ways. The same goes for how you look. If someone points out something they think is a flaw, that doesn’t mean it really is one. There’s always someone else who will look at that same thing and think it’s beautiful or special. Trying to change yourself to be perfect won’t really make things easier, because a lot of people think perfection means having no flaws at all. For a long time, I thought that too. Then I thought perfection didn’t exist at all. But now I see it differently. Perfection isn’t about having no flaws, because nobody is flawless. Perfection is being able to see both the "good" and the "bad" parts of something and accept them together. It’s understanding the balance between what you perceive as beauty and what you perceive as ugliness, and being able to see that they can't exist without each other, which makes them both important and worthy of love. You're still worth love no matter what.
2026-05-30 09:46:11