@lifeinfocuswithsuttida: Straight up - thinking that loving someone harder is going to stretch their capacity to meet you is a childhood wound. It’s on you not them. #relationships #HealingJourney #SelfImprovement #relationshipadvice #selfawareness

cmeadeart :

THIS IS SO HARD for a highly intelligent achieving head strong determined woman. We think we can figure this out. Just think harder. There’s always something to try then one day we just lose hope.

Ann 🇨🇦 :

Zero capacity. Zero 😳

Julioiscoolio :

Love might be the opposite of a relationship. Because love freely gives at the pleasure of the giver. Love ask for nothing in return, love does not require reciprocate a participation, love does not wait for permission to exist. A relationship is reciprocated transaction of value back and forth. The relationship is a human doing and Love is a human being ( the being is the essence, the soul and spirit).

G world :

Why did I let myself fall in love with an empty person??

Alex | Actionable Awareness :

Yep! Cause you can’t change what doesn’t want to be changed, so hard to learn, esp when you see their potential

Diogenes’ Quest :

OMG, this is so true…… it’s gutting when you someone who doesn’t have the capacity to love, doesn’t have tools or infrastructure

Rachel :

Aka being with a dismissive avoidant

Dumms :

Just found your page and your topics are amazing, truly relatable and helpful. Hope much more audiences will be able to hear you. Goodluck and thank you for your videos 🥰

Chantz :

Thank you.I am so guilty of this

Maria :

Does this mean they don’t love you? Would they change for smb they love?

louscarpaci :

So painful, so true

toddnrichardson :

Ugh.. yep. Hard lesson to learn and harder to accept

bigpictureplan :

So brilliantly articulated

vega$_vibes0923 :

So true 💯

KIMBO :

💯

MastrMynd :

🥺🥺😌 #mastrmynd

Jean2863 :

Truth!!!

naomi34 :

Wow! This was profound and relatable.

Serenquil :

ChordBleu 🇨🇦 :

woof! The timing of this 💔

Mellicent :

Amen!🙏

Art Mesa :

agreed. That’s why you measure the space and if you want a relationship, give the part of you that could fit in that space, nothing more. My coworker for example can’t help but make offensive personal comments but wants more time with me outside of work. I only see him during work hours, and only discuss work stuff in as little time as possible. I recognized what he can handle and only gave him that. We have a great work relationship. I only saw him twice this semester. I know I’m happy.

Oil iMe :

Could this capacity or limit be a coping mechanism from past traumas experiences??