Wholeheartedly disagree with the first one. We are that couple who don’t fight. Sure we have different opinions about things, or sometimes say something that upsets the other person but talk like mature adults. I think couples who fight shows emotional immaturity.
2026-05-29 09:10:47
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Lay🤍 :
I think you can absolutely disagree, through healthy communication, without fighting or arguing with your partner.
2026-05-29 08:46:07
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Chris Hools :
People always say , “I disagree with my partner but we don’t argue or fight” . I think people just have a vastly different opinion on what “arguing”is. I’d say ooh we had a fight last night but we weren’t screaming and shouting at each other, we just had a heated disagreement that ended almost as soon as it started. Arguing to me is even snipping at each other in the car on the way to the airport when everyone’s emotions are heightened and we’re both stressed. Then when we arrive all is fine again.
2026-05-29 09:47:11
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lincaitt :
Tbf it’s twice as expensive for 2 people to go on a trip
2026-05-29 22:11:26
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Emma (AuDHD, Travel, Food) :
Do you mean solo trips that are specifically about ‘finding yourself’ or something like that or any solo trips? Cos if it’s the latter I soo disagree
2026-05-31 22:50:18
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meeeeeeesh22 :
Ok but what if I extend my cool work trips? I had to go to Finland and extended the weekend to Sweden because I’d never been. I’m American so it’s not like it’s easy to meet up.
2026-05-30 03:27:42
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Harriet Thompson :
what podcast episode is this from? I’d love to listen to the whole thing
2026-05-29 13:55:03
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Sarah🇨🇦 :
My husband and I talk all day long and care deeply, we are just insanely compatible. We bicker over small things once and awhile but we very rarely fight and we absolutely never yell or swear.
2026-05-29 14:44:00
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sarah siegel 🇨🇦 :
I think a lot of these are rules for your 20s or 30s. But for instance, needing a vacation away if you've been raising kids for years? Yeah, that can be healthy.
2026-06-01 22:57:25
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Sarah Balls :
I could imagine being separate at a party if you’re 2 extroverts with your fave ppl who you never see and both socialising hard. You can catch up together at the end
2026-06-02 00:14:39
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ejbalcombe :
I disagree with my hubby not fight/argue. I grew up in a family that loved to shout and argue so it made me not do it later in life.
2026-05-29 11:49:46
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shark :
I think there’s a huuuuge difference between fighting and disagreeing. I have grown up watching people fight. I have been with my wife for over 7 years and we have never had a single fight. We disagree and we communicate.
2026-05-29 14:33:23
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(AJAX) TaraGWW :
I think mostly when couples say they don’t fight they don’t mean that they never disagree or have to work out a situation. They mean they don’t argue or shout or get heated with each other. That when they have a problem it’s them vs the situation not vs each other. But yes for the ones where they just go along with what the other wants it’s not a great sign
2026-05-30 03:27:41
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Annie :
Was listening to this in the car, and trying to figure out what our dishwasher contention coming up in both with our individual vows means 😂😂😂😂
2026-05-29 14:10:04
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Maggie Louise :
When their vows or wedding speech include ‘we’ve had our ups and downs…’ 💀
2026-05-29 10:09:41
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Kate Bell :
When I say ‘we don’t fight’ I mean we don’t yell and swear at each other. That’s what I see to be fighting, we disagree, bicker, get snotty at each other and have to apologise and I think that’s what should be normal
2026-05-29 16:14:04
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Panini :
Couples who say they don’t fight are prob the ones that don’t shout. I don’t shout because if I want to win the argument the best way to win is to calmly tell my husband he’s being VERY emotional and dramatic
2026-05-31 02:44:06
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Chan | Racquet Racket 🎾 :
Well there goes me booking a European solo trip
2026-05-29 18:43:02
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B :
I will go against the grain of people nitpicking the fighting one and getting defensive 😂 I totally agree! In my past relationship I totally disengaged the past few months before I broke things off.... I just didn't care! I just did the bare minimum to get through till I could leave. The funny part is, is that he said he was blindsided because 'things had been so good' 💀💀 ie me barely engaging with him was the dream lol 😂
2026-05-30 10:33:11
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CM :
Honestly I love a fight. Last year I got a fab ring from missoma (practise ring) and then my engagement ring was a slay!! 😎
2026-05-31 22:03:23
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