@digitalincomewithashley: Comment OPTION if this is you. nobody talks about this part. the missing. not in a dramatic way. just the quiet ache of knowing your kid had a moment today and you weren't there for it. and the worst part isn't even missing it. it's knowing you didn't have a choice. the check has to come from somewhere and that somewhere has been your time for way too long. I built something that gave me my choice back. not overnight. but it gave it back. if you're tired of the check costing you this much, comment OPTION. that's exactly why I started.