Stop normalising negativity as hidden good intention
2026-05-30 17:27:55
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Mann II :
The message is sound, the delivery is the problem
2026-05-30 11:17:24
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onlywei :
Never trust anyone who worked for McKinsey
2026-05-30 13:28:47
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Yo :
lol wow that was incredibly well said
2026-05-29 21:17:56
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WheelsofTime :
He articulated that so well....kids like him truly understand parents intention n hv own strong self belief n intelligence n strategy to navigate own life
2026-05-30 13:37:28
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Blue Sunflower :
Wow this is the full comprehensive take
2026-05-29 21:21:19
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Starlord🇨🇦 :
It’s not just Asian parents. Most parents are the same. Especially if they are immigrants.
2026-05-30 15:57:06
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Pic_Optics :
Risk Averse and communicating it in a negative unsupportive way.
2026-05-30 15:07:52
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HT :
Oh wow, so logically wonderful. I have peace now.
2026-05-30 05:13:08
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Marciayl :
I don’t tell my mom about my biggest career risks until after I’ve stabilized. I don’t need her anxiety on top of my own.
2026-05-30 18:13:40
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Ted :
Parents may still have been right. He is discounting luck.
2026-05-30 17:22:53
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Sir_Josh :
This was amazingly said… wow
2026-05-30 14:55:03
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Alvaro Ayesta :
You’re so wise and smart my friend. I wish you success
2026-05-31 22:28:36
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salriv3 :
this is a good perspective
2026-06-01 12:03:39
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kaylafornia_kool :
I’ve never had an original experience
2026-05-30 04:55:54
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I need coffee man :
The intentions are clear. Stay positive
2026-06-02 03:01:07
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Sora Choi :
Good way to frame it
2026-05-30 13:57:46
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Meow Meow :
the dad is asking a question, a question you need to make sure you know the answer
2026-05-30 15:16:27
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Jessicasleptwithhermateacher :
I feel like our parents will only love us the only way they know how. Their personal interest would always be what they think is gonna be safest for us, not the best. I’ve grown to accept that.
2026-05-30 13:27:30
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Brie.leanna :
yep. I come from a hypocritical mom, too. I know it comes from a good place because she wants me to be protected and safe, but the delivery is always off and hurtful.
2026-05-30 12:48:02
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WIL 😎 :
I realised this too late in life. I look back and wished I had “rebellious” spirit when I was younger and not listen to my parents too much 😞
2026-05-31 00:41:10
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🖖 :
Painful tho
2026-05-30 11:28:40
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jamesdg :
the spirit of the intent
2026-05-30 09:35:12
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thestardar :
Wow - that actually made sense and I’m a 56 year old Asian dad of 3 with first gen parents.
2026-05-31 15:35:11
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kriskl :
yes there is definitely assume the worse. like when I topped the class in a particular year the response was "lets see how it is the next year" there was quiet satisfaction but someone fear that being joyful would jinx it? 😆
2026-06-01 08:56:19
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