If he had said, “Good morning and happy birthday, babe. I’m going to get those chores done right now. Is there anything else I can do for you?” At 9 when he woke up and then actually done the chores, there wouldn’t have been an issue.
2026-05-31 13:30:53
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It‘s Moon :
What is going on in that family
2026-05-31 13:49:34
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T.K :
he don't like her.
2026-06-06 13:06:15
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shaniaarnold332 :
I kinda get not saying it at 1 and 2 in the morning, but after waking up, its not the first thing he said to her? Just "are you mad at me?" Bruh
2026-05-31 19:42:45
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Witch of the Glen :
Yes, you're the TA
2026-05-31 14:46:23
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yarupiesu :
I’m mad at him on her behalf.
2026-06-05 01:37:01
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Theawesome1 :
NTA
2026-05-31 14:22:59
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Micata :
Him, asking for permission to do the chores is pissing me off.
2026-06-01 16:21:22
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squanchy :
yea ... set an alarm for 11:59 to say happy birthday... I do this small easy thing for my family and friends. its such a nice feeling knowing someone remembered the moment it is your birthday and trying to be the first one! the smallest and easiest thing you can fo for others, but it has made a huge deal for my mental health in the past
2026-06-01 01:33:03
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Tujaro :
the least it could have done was sent a text message that was time to be sent right at midnight which is what I always do and then I also tell her happy birthday when I wake up
2026-05-31 13:24:43
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Monica :
I mean I get both sides of it. They are definitely both tired and op is sick with a stomach bug and anyone who's had that... not fun. So, I can understand that he missed opportunities and just didn't say it when she wanted him to. However, I feel like she should have given him a little more time to do so than 830am. 😂 I mean my husband doesn't always remember in the morning but he does in the afternoon.
2026-06-03 05:37:39
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XMaggs :
We need more context - did he actually remember it was her birthday, what was the reason he didn't say happy birthday? Also, why did he ask for permission to do chores?
2026-06-01 09:24:04
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🥵👿KELZ🥵😈 :
I hold grudges for my Birthday and Mother's day
2026-05-31 19:36:01
2
Juls :
My man tells me at midnight. 3yrs in a row and 3 happy birthday wishes at midnight
2026-06-02 00:44:31
1
Vania Raigosa S :
when is my bd and i go to sleep early the night before but wake up to the toilet and if my partner still awake, he happily yells "happy birthday!" even though im half asleep 😂😂
2026-06-03 04:47:29
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riceisnice :
Yes
2026-05-31 16:39:31
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shotgun bushranger :
i don't think he's TA for not saying happy birthday the last 2 times but was at 9am
2026-06-01 08:17:37
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Jill :
Even if his head is in the toilet he could slip in a “happy birthday” with a little sarcasm to make them both laugh.
2026-05-31 14:25:37
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🍃💨🇨🇦Sebrina🌙♋ :
its bullshit like this, is why I'm single
2026-06-01 03:23:14
3
carebearsalot6898 :
yta
2026-05-31 22:56:42
1
mickmomma :
permission to do chores🙄 the divorce came out of nowhere
2026-06-05 09:28:21
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