I think people should figure out what they want before dating
2026-05-29 15:45:05
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lincoln burgess :
dont all relationships start as casual or nah?
2026-05-29 18:25:00
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angel <33 :
girl where were u when i was 19
2026-05-29 20:18:42
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Zeniyah💌 :
Like only do casual if you’re the one initiating and actually standing by that 😭
2026-06-03 04:54:20
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cer 𖦹ׂ ₊˚⊹⋆ :
where were u when i was acting a fool
2026-05-29 16:28:33
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ArtemisFolly :
btw y'all this still applies the other way around
2026-05-29 17:26:41
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bethany_kc :
Yes I know I’m an idiot sandwich
2026-05-30 01:40:29
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Hilla :
This!! My situationship told me that "I don't know what I want, but I like hanging out with you" when I made it clear that I was looking for a relationship. We had been on 8 dates already. So I told her we have different relationship goals and we should stop seeing each other. Never settle to be someone's "maybe"
2026-08-03 17:14:46
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themandalorehimself :
I jus don’t want anyone else in my house all the time but I want some company sometimes 😂
2026-05-29 18:02:24
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Miamore🫵🏽💋 :
When my ex bsf said she didn’t want anything genuine knowing I am demisexual I just left
2026-05-29 18:25:06
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defectsx :
and even if you could change him why would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you had to change for you to feel happy with them 😭
2026-05-30 09:31:58
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diana<3 :
learned this the hard way
2026-05-30 20:43:51
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Fee Hanım💓 :
People genuinely need to sit back and spend time with themselves, and figure out who they are and what they want in life before they decide to enter the dating pool
2026-05-29 17:31:49
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Em :
I had the opposite happen where he wanted casual and I said “sorry, not for me, bye” and he immediately started being obsessed with me and would not leave me alone (I did not date him, I stand on it when I say I don’t mess with casual)
2026-07-16 22:52:16
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Cassy :
You just made me cry 😂
2026-06-13 22:55:40
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DanielDuToit :
2026-06-26 13:40:36
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kaitlyn :
Unfortunately I had to learn this the hard way
2026-08-12 17:59:52
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mimi :
not
2026-06-28 20:16:43
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Ini Olulope :
Yes but that’s not exactly helpful advice. The more helpful thing to do say is to take a mans emotional availability at its word. “He would date you if he liked you more” is internalizing a sense of unworthiness for no reason.
2026-05-31 22:19:32
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side duck :
"He probably likes the beach, he just didn't like the beach with you" - words of advice my Dad once gave my sister. Brutal but she needed to hear it.
2026-05-29 16:00:23
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NeuroticNate :
“I’m good at casual” = “I’ll trick him into it later”
2026-05-29 17:14:47
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