@madsadbadpodcast: You’re gonna do double!!!! Michelle de Swarte on the lie women were sold that they could have it all… and why she wants to stay childfree. Search ‘Michelle de Swarte Mad, Sad & Bad’ on YouTube, Apple or Spotify for the full conversation. @paloma faith #michelledeswarte #palomafaith #childfree #feminism #inequality

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rollersderby21
TryingToBeARollerQueen :
Spent my teens and 20s terrified of getting pregnant and losing my life 😂 36 now and pregnant. Happy I waited. I earn enough, I’ve travelled, I’ve loved & lost & had adventures. Plus this baby will be older when I’m in my 50s to go on a nice cruise or something 😅
2026-07-09 12:47:09
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clartyfozz
Kleggan :
100% bought into the you can have it all and no regrets but then hit 30 ready to find a partner and have a family. Now 35 and feel like i am doing the walk of shame to the fertility clinic because I left it so late after been told to wait to start a family and got put on the pill at 15. We were so lied to and not given realistic expectations
2026-07-23 16:36:45
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ailaj87
✧a!l@✧ :
I hear you with the repetition. ADHD brain does not like repetition. Can't quit a family like a job !
2026-07-23 07:53:09
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5catfam
FiveCatFamily😻💚💚 :
It’s entirely possible to have kids and a career it requires a couple who work as a team everything is easier when you do it together
2026-05-31 09:37:48
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user909942803657
Just me :
Fuck them kidssss
2026-07-09 22:22:36
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misskim.sporty.fam
misskim.sporty.fam :
I had my first at 25 and my 4th at 35. I love being able to go bottomless brunch with her lol. my son won't wanna know me by the time he's 18 and ill be too tired for brunch 🤣
2026-07-09 17:10:51
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adrianwigfield
adrianwigfield :
I would have loved to have stayed at home with my kids
2026-07-10 06:49:07
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meljj6
meljj6 :
everyday for 28yrs and counting for me 😳. I had big gaps between my 3 kids. I'd recommend having them closer together 😂
2026-06-12 08:38:47
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sugarhobbit
Sugar Hobbit :
‘Every single day’ is one of the best descriptions of parenthood ever!🤣😭
2026-05-30 19:01:42
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emmabuckley.personal
Emma Buckley :
We have been led to believe that we can have it all, but we cannot. We have choices, yes, but if having children is something you want then everything is about compromise.
2026-06-06 19:50:26
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thenewell4
Pauli B :
Everyday. In summer it's worse. 3 meals and snacks a day.
2026-05-31 09:20:48
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lifeandsoul74
Gee 💕 :
Oh Gosh I hear it EVERY DAY 😳😂
2026-05-31 06:37:03
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taz_dr
SP-DR :
Growing up in the 60/70s people had kids a lot younger as we had dad working class pay to support a household. My mum did also go to work..when we got older. Since Thatcher it's not a choice
2026-05-30 04:58:29
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djfidel_7
Fidel :
Everyday 💀
2026-06-06 05:44:48
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lana.m.c.g
Lana :
As a mum I agree 😂 EVERYDAY!!
2026-07-09 16:15:51
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francesca_loves_music
Francesca_loves_music :
This! 👌
2026-05-31 16:43:15
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