@mackenzieherman: No contact is normally the route I preach, but sometimes, it is ok. Look out for these signs, it may be ok to reach out now. Have you seen these signs yet? #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #avoidant #dismissiveavoidant
I'm not reaching out first. I was always the one to reach out first. If he wants to reconnect he can reach out first
2026-05-29 18:21:31
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pao_2000 :
It’s crazy how few people talk about The Pullback Effect by Marcus Veyne. Some of the techniques in there completely changed how I see breakups.
2026-05-30 01:32:14
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darthcruzie :
There is never a sign to reach out to your avoidant!
2026-05-30 03:28:44
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VenushkaN :
🤔 Why would I reach out to someone who left me like I was nothing, but was supposedly still in love with me? 🙄
2026-05-29 21:59:27
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Sassy :
Nope, I was always the chaser during the relationship and I will never reach out first now. After months of no contact he now watches my social media daily. Ball is in his court meanwhile I am working on myself not waiting on him.
2026-07-01 19:56:55
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draxispowersthethird :
It’s never time. Move on.
2026-05-30 16:09:42
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user929751605171226 :
Happy birthday text at midnight on her birthday good idea or bad idea
2026-05-29 18:41:22
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SpiritualB :
Yup I reached out I felt so weak without him this person is. Different feeling
2026-07-19 20:30:35
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nick r :
I just got shut off out of no where and dont know what to do. Everything was going good and then for no reason ghosted me
2026-07-19 21:50:10
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X B :
We have No social media at all so nbr 2 cannot exist so.. 13 months no contact.. should i contact him? What should be the text?
2026-06-07 22:55:41
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katjas :
What about avoidant that do not have any social media. He never liked it, doesn’t like using phone in general… and he just ghosted me 2 months ago… and is still ghosting
2026-05-30 08:09:02
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TheFirstLady of Frontierland :
She unfollowed me during a big life change for her, then followed me and we talked a lot like every day. We talked a lot and things were really good and then she randomly blocked me one day after all that good conversation again
2026-07-03 21:48:35
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roberttullos2 :
No. I got robot. Now I dont have to worry about the labyrinth of her emotions. I get what I want when I want it
2026-07-16 11:33:11
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mikeborzi755 :
If they wanted to, they would.
2026-07-05 19:30:25
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d@ni :
It's dawned on me I may be the avoidant😂😂
2026-05-29 19:41:12
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sdb038🇨🇦 :
Yeah you never explain what happens when they block you
2026-05-30 22:42:42
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UAP_Nexus :
No, she earned her place. She’s gonna need to contact me otherwise I’m out.
2026-07-04 20:49:26
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The Flying Lad :
I reached out, got blocked
2026-07-19 23:38:04
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Norah | Pilates Instructor :
She blocked me. I’m devastated.
2026-05-30 06:55:27
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diko james :
question, how about when the anxious one cheated on the avoidant what will happen, what's the perspective of the avoidant?
2026-07-01 03:09:43
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wickedslice2 :
It’s taking everything from me not to reach out. The last time I did it didn’t work out for me.
2026-07-06 21:40:30
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Pey.Grey :
Is the answer “never” ?
2026-07-27 03:19:02
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xcmd :
I gave some space, I didn't push the issue and I wasn't rude. After 3 month of no contact she STARTED A NEW RELATIONSHIP. Not situationship as me for 8 months....
2026-07-28 01:58:28
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nameswill92 :
And that’s why i got no Contact when they suddenly Have a Bf. Lol i get to go no contact get the feeling of relief, all while knowing they’re Happy Now. 😂 🥀
2026-07-13 16:07:22
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Sandy :
Don’t
2026-06-25 19:08:27
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