@mackenzieherman: No contact is normally the route I preach, but sometimes, it is ok. Look out for these signs, it may be ok to reach out now. Have you seen these signs yet? #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #avoidant #dismissiveavoidant
There is never a sign to reach out to your avoidant!
2026-05-30 03:28:44
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PNWgirlie ❌️ :
I'm not reaching out first. I was always the one to reach out first. If he wants to reconnect he can reach out first
2026-05-29 18:21:31
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looloo :
never , he will never get the chance to ignore me again i now value me im glad he showed me this side within months I wish him well.and hope he an allow himself to feel love and be loved
2026-06-03 19:51:45
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pao_2000 :
It’s crazy how few people talk about The Pullback Effect by Marcus Veyne. Some of the techniques in there completely changed how I see breakups.
2026-05-30 01:32:14
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user929751605171226 :
Happy birthday text at midnight on her birthday good idea or bad idea
2026-05-29 18:41:22
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MixkH48 :
It’s never time. Move on.
2026-05-30 16:09:42
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VenushkaN :
🤔 Why would I reach out to someone who left me like I was nothing, but was supposedly still in love with me? 🙄
2026-05-29 21:59:27
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laura 🐌 :
girl you always pop up in my fyp when were broken up😭 i haven't seen you in months
2026-05-30 00:38:58
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Norah | Pilates Instructor :
She blocked me. I’m devastated.
2026-05-30 06:55:27
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breakthecyclemorty :
Could you do some content on how to reconnect and build the trust again after a genuine bid for connection? After the initial talk that they want to put in the work and get clear on the expectations
2026-05-31 19:34:17
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sdb038🇨🇦 :
Yeah you never explain what happens when they block you
2026-05-30 22:42:42
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d@ni :
It's dawned on me I may be the avoidant😂😂
2026-05-29 19:41:12
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Jennie 🇨🇦 🐓TeamPueblo #1🐓 :
I’ll probably never know when this will be. 😖
2026-05-29 20:25:41
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Coco6911 :
This actually worked well in my avoidant relationship, he reached out for an almost silly reason and I was ready to face it with clarity.
2026-06-02 09:43:01
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katjas :
What about avoidant that do not have any social media. He never liked it, doesn’t like using phone in general… and he just ghosted me 2 months ago… and is still ghosting
2026-05-30 08:09:02
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✝️Josh🏀 :
Amen!!
2026-06-01 19:01:11
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CuximMan :
Yo this is what The Black Book of Wealth by James Cole is all about. Changed how I see everything.
2026-05-31 23:43:32
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salma p-10 :
mine is only reaching out to ask for a job connection I had promised him before we broke up,
2026-05-31 03:59:53
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🔰𝕸𝖊𝖑𝖆𝖓𝖞🌷 :
I stumbled across The Pullback Effect by Marcus Veyne and I’ll never look at relationships the same again.
2026-05-30 01:32:15
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MARTIN :
Anyone serious about manifestation should read The Black Book of Wealth by James Cole. It shifted my reality and transformed my life.
2026-05-31 23:43:33
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Odii_Odz :
I’d prefer to pull my teeth out one by one.
2026-05-30 23:37:37
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✌🏽🍉حليمة :
No, ladies no. we dont beg anyone to choose us.
2026-05-30 00:08:45
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bezaelith :
Nope. They have to adult. This isn’t do we wake up the 3 year olds after naptime. They have to adult. They have to reach out. And when they reach out they have to directly address what they did, be real, take accountability. Don’t be sorry. Adult.
2026-05-31 03:35:13
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Daniel :
Time has gone by and I feel emotionally stable now. Also I don't want to reach out anymore. Im ok, Im good. She leaving me has lit something inside and has made me invest in me more. Avoidents, I have learned..
2026-05-29 19:01:33
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🍓 strawberryjelly14🔻 :
Maybe the avoidant can ascend out of their avoidance and fear and reach out first instead of relying on the other person to always repair the connection. 🤯
2026-05-29 19:47:49
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