All I know is I can walk to work in and out without guilt and shame. It’s the most disorienting experience ever happened to me. But, he crashed out on me in the airport when he realized I am travelling same day he was and we both have same time off. I stayed no contact since I moved out, he got angry I didn’t tell him where I was going and yet he wanted me gone? So I stayed gone. It hurts but each day gets easier.
2026-07-15 22:58:30
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Lbreeeezzyyy :
The discard is the worst pain iv ever experienced. Absolutely horrible. I don’t understand how you can love someone one day then leave the next like i ment nothing.. i don’t get it
2026-05-30 01:54:16
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Bob :
Worst pain that I’ve ever experienced. Be easy on yourself, it takes time to heal
2026-05-29 19:26:18
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Hannah Seivers :
I’m at 8 months post discard and I’m still broken
2026-05-30 00:39:49
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Kris :
Yeah and a year on it's still devastating
2026-05-29 21:00:21
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Aunt B 🏖️ 🇺🇸 🦩 🏝️ :
It’s horrible. It’s left so much damage that I can’t imagine ever wanting to be with anyone again and it’s been years since it ended. I can’t trust anymore. Your son is correct
2026-06-05 12:30:26
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GPhillips :
Being discarded was the best thing that happened to me, I still think about them but not like I used too and I was a wreck in the beginning and I still have my bad days with it but I realized that someone that can you get rid of you like that isn’t your person. Someone is out there that’s not going do you like that.
2026-05-30 17:58:12
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HerEraToEarn :
I almost crashed my first 3 months... I thought I made a wrong decision.
2026-05-29 23:12:54
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Ang010565 :
2 months out and I’m doing so much better. It still hurts like a bitch but I accepted the fact that the man I loved no longer exists.
2026-05-30 14:16:26
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ash :
Genuinely one of the worst things I’ve ever experienced.
2026-06-23 00:04:20
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ramzus_god :
I’ve felt so alone for the last month and a half. She was my only friend 😔
2026-05-29 20:27:11
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Seipati 💜💜💜 :
For me it was a blessing I never knew I needed
2026-06-07 06:22:30
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✨Comment Creator✨ :
You described this so well, it is exactly like this. They basically become strangers overnight!!
2026-05-30 00:51:13
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libertyfayxo :
Wow this is insanely accurate
2026-05-29 22:44:42
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Michelle Ashley :
Worst pain ever. I knew nothing he walked out after 35 years while I was at work. No explanation just gone
2026-05-30 01:07:52
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Emily Walton :
I've blocked them on most apps (not WhatsApp, we still had shared pets). This was about them, not me. I'll be ok again.
2026-05-30 11:55:38
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user9804884479903 :
Omgosh Darlene….you helped me though my divorce almost 4 years ago and this just hits home!! This was my situation exactly!! I’m so thankful for you and still am!! ❤️
2026-05-30 00:14:55
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Hannah Seivers :
It’s amazing the person he became. Like 180 personality change. It’s scary.
2026-05-30 00:40:32
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venerable_mom :
It’s been 1 month and I am starting to feel good again 😃
2026-05-30 07:51:02
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Lilia 🥀 :
So you’ve met my ex ? 🥲🥲
2026-06-30 16:54:15
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Lisalint68 :
Thank you.
2026-06-01 01:11:39
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J.Beans :
I'm pretty sure I was the rebound. He broke things off after 3 months with me then proceeded to breadcrumb me and continue to make me believe he was in love with me for the following 4 months. Then got back with his previous ex and now I'm blocked.
2026-06-27 15:30:32
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Linda Lou ❌ :
Worst thing I have ever experienced but I did survive when I thought I wouldn’t.
2026-06-02 15:22:08
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Kieran :
I’ve been discarded by an avoidant and still suffering a year later. Never heard of it before but now I’m an expert but doesn’t really help.
2026-05-30 18:16:54
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