@thepottymouthguru: A lot of father-daughter wounds are not about a father being cruel. They’re about a daughter quietly learning: 👉 What do I need to do to be important? Because daughters often learn from their fathers: - whether they matter - whether their voice matters - whether they deserve attention - whether they deserve protection - whether they are worth listening to - whether they have to earn love, validation, or approval Many daughters don't grow up thinking: 👉 My father didn't see me. They grow up thinking: 👉 Something about me wasn't worth seeing. And that wound can show up later as: - people pleasing - perfectionism - overachieving - accepting crumbs - chasing unavailable people - struggling with boundaries - constantly proving worth Some daughters become incredibly self-aware of their flaws because they grew up being evaluated instead of being seen. That’s a very different kind of self-awareness. ❤️🤟🏻🌿 #unfuckyourself #thepottymouthguru #fatherdaughter #attachmentstyles #childhoodtrauma
I genuinely don’t understand what unconditional love means.
2026-05-30 21:03:57
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FightMe :
Oof! Well that explains a lot about myself.
2026-07-28 21:53:53
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lisabrown7091 :
How does one fix this??
2026-07-28 19:52:39
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Ntando PZ Mbatha🇿🇦 :
This relationship also affects your relationship with money.
2026-05-31 11:22:23
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Lolabell :
I should have scrolled😭
2026-05-30 18:14:55
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Incha🪐 :
me with my father who abandoned me when I was 3 and I never heard from him again 🥳
2026-07-28 22:52:46
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autumn :
I needed this thnx
2026-07-28 21:46:14
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Amyzing :
Girl.. you didn’t even hold my hand 🥺
2026-05-30 12:11:34
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hopie :
this is a sensitive topic for me
2026-06-01 15:17:37
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Fatima :
daugther and father... tiktok really knows my deep dark secrets
2026-05-31 08:30:32
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nl962407 :
this algorithm is getting really specific
2026-05-30 23:25:58
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REDHOOD :
I don't have time to unpack all of this right now
2026-05-31 05:17:10
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emilyj.c.fables :
Babes I can’t keep learning names for my trauma😭
2026-05-30 08:29:09
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Buffy Baggins Warrior Princess :
Im just pissed. I want a cabine in the woods and to live with a garden, note books, cats and wine.
2026-05-30 08:51:42
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AJ :
My dad was exactly like that, but now, instead of being a people pleaser, I found extremely difficult to love unconditionally or even tolerate incompetence in my partners. I feel like I’ve become more of an avoidant than a pleaser.
2026-05-31 03:26:52
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rea ☆ :
“I have been working my ass off my whole life for something that should’ve been given freely, it should’ve never been conditional”
2026-05-30 22:41:18
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