i think kids should be able to "talk back" just not in violent or disrespectful ways. they should always have a voice and feel heard
2026-05-31 16:09:08
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ForestSage🍉🏳️🌈 :
hey so my mom was exactly like this and I haven't spoken to her since I turned 18 and moved out after graduation. so I hope you're prepared for that. she made me personally put my toys in the goodwill bin at 6 years old. I didn't know what I did, I just knew mom was mad and it was my fault.
2026-05-31 09:18:50
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Nicoleeee :
🧍♀️my mom did this, and i still talk to her. i even have a kid myself and understand why she did all that. i grew up absolutely great, and well behaved cause she actually parented me. my daughters the same way as well since i don’t do “gentle parenting” i don’t think there’s anything wrong with ACTUALLY parenting.
2026-05-31 16:45:59
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cassidy🌺🌞 :
idk my boyfriend when he was younger would just say “ok” and then help throw away all of his toys..😭😭
2026-05-30 19:46:15
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Adaline :
Listen tik tok did me dirty I didn’t proof read it’s “privilege”
2026-05-30 04:29:27
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dev 🐞🤍 :
Gentle parenting has gotten out of hand and no one knows how to properly do it. I nanny for the most perfect children in the world. They are well behaved, they know their feelings but have good emotional regulation, they are loving and full of empathy, they are smart and caring, and they are not gentle parented. Their parents use an authoritative approach that sets high expectations with explanations so that their children can meet them. Their 3 year old would never throw a tantrum in public. She knows to listen to safe adults. She shares her opinions and asks questions. She has good relationships with her family members. She is high excelling in preschool. She was sleep trained, she was told no, she’s raised in a tight ship way, but she has excelled because of it.
2026-05-31 18:05:34
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Jasmine♡ :
Sad. My kids will want to donate toys out of kindness, will be encouraged to ask questions and will be given reasons for our decisions because they’re people, will be allowed to have feelings and vent them as the people they are.
2026-05-31 06:08:07
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mercedes :
gentle parenting is literally just the active communicating with your children and giving natural consequences
2026-05-31 22:24:18
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Nikki ☀️ :
If these are reason you stopped taking to y’all’s parents then I think some other things happened in your household because my mom did all of these things and I love that women 😅
2026-06-04 17:26:58
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scarlet :
I missed senior prom bc of a parent like this… pls dont. Im a junior in college and still am so mad.
2026-05-30 23:22:44
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Elaine :
All of the comments are like “why do my kids never talk to me” none of these seem that bad at all to me, are they not common behavioral corrections?
2026-06-01 12:33:31
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raney :) :
My mom did all these things and we are best friends lol sometimes you have to stoop to a child’s level so they understand their actions! When I was 5 I didn’t think rationally like an adult yet, I just wanted santa to come lol
2026-05-31 18:06:56
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taylor boyd :
reposting this you icon
2026-05-30 20:10:08
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richard :
Idk how anyone sees an issue with this
2026-06-01 15:19:01
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𝑽𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒏𝒆 :
please give me the definition of "talking back", because i have a mom and stepdad like this who think "talking back" is any form of communication. Even agreeing with them is talking back.
2026-05-31 18:50:58
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mel🌟 :
“prevledges”
2026-05-31 21:08:07
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zoë rae zoë :
Hey so my parents did this and it didn’t actually help my behavior but now I have an anxiety disorder!
2026-06-04 07:16:26
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Corrinna🤍 :
My sons love donating toys because I work as a child advocate in a children’s shelter 😂
2026-05-31 15:51:48
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★ :
“why do my kids never visit me?”
2026-05-31 15:34:29
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˙ ⋆ ✮ 𝐕 𝐄 𝐆 𝐀 :
“why don’t my kids talk to me?”
2026-05-31 03:16:44
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Madison Dunmyer :
Bad parents really need to stop having kids. Learn how to do deal with children or stop having kids. 🤦🏼♀️
2026-06-05 22:34:16
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emory.m25 :
idk what these comments are on. i agree with you. my dad has 2 kids from my ex-stepmom and they do NOT listen to him because he gentle parents them but as soon as they come over to my house, i don’t have to say something twice for it to be done. i hardly even have to say it once because they already know. it’s not because im mean because im not, but you don’t get to gentle parent kids and then act like you don’t know how they ended up being a spoiled brat.
2026-06-04 16:15:11
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Isabella Hill949 :
Okay mommy dearest
2026-06-02 20:09:45
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ari ✨ :
oh pls don’t do that with the toys. i’ve struggled with attachment issues for years because i had to clear out so many toys to donate as a punishment for something i didn’t do, and had to choose ‘which toy do you love more’ constantly. had to work hard to not turn into a hoarder as an adult
2026-06-02 16:28:40
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ashley :
I will never get over children who have no public decency. Like say thank you, excuse me, hello.
2026-06-03 13:55:58
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