@k45.tattoo: It used to be a mystery to me but now it seems like a no brainer. If you’re struggling with this I know exactly how you feel. It’s a terrible feeling but I promise you it’s very doable to get some friends as long as you are patient and follow a process.

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fineshyt :

i tried, even work at some point, until i realized people don't relate to me and. I don't relate to people in common. and that feeling really sucks.

vanillasaur :

Jiggly Tits :

The hard part is having interests that other people share. I feel like I’m never interested in something either as much as they are or end up being too interested

thatshellasad :

I'm gonna die alone lol

☆Aurelius☆ :

"understand social skills"

nancy :

i am a positive nancy

🍎 apple 🍏 :

also in a literal sense "see something? say something" if you notice something about someone make a comment to them about it to them (cool hair, pins on their bag, ect.) its an easy way to start conversation and get more comfortable taking social initiative

sogg :

Don’t bother even reading the slides if u don’t wanna make friends, these days I see so many ppl complain they don’t have friends but they don’t even want friends. The true first step is wanting friends and a proper social life

🍴 :

pro tip: ALWAYS say "have a nice day!",(after a social interaction) doesn't matter if ur getting food or someone said u stood on their toe. makes people happier and can lead to small talk or even just a thank you!

Nei :

this is peak

sketch :

what if your true self is being negative

& :

Fyp knows I'm a loner

Indi!! :

as an autistic trying to get past small talk is INFURIATINGLY hard which is why the only few friends I have are from clicking straight away weather it be because I spotted they have the same interests or we're like minded :')

pozole_plasma :

I just feel like I never know how to introduce myself or enter a convo

Nate Farrell :

Teach this in schools

zem :

the hardest part is being in social places

Spoopy :

i forced myself to join a discord server, watched wwe with a cool person, jokingly said we should bet on how many erectile dysfunction ads. now i live 30 min from their house and we hang out like every other day in person and vc every night. so yea. talking to ppl unfortunately is the key as much as it pains me to admit

Bumzoᛉ☸︎☮ :

Tried all, it's over and it never gets better

grandtheftautism :

I don't want friends every single one I have had so far has been fake to me. I am ok alone.

☆quesadilla☆ :

also lots of expusure terapy to teach yourself if you dont make friends with someone after talking, its okay you can always try again its not the end of the world a little akward conversation

K45ink :

Not every public place is a social place. Here’s a list of social places

getfuckedbabes :

How to be less negative tho? I was called negative at work and I think he was right. I just can't see much hope anymore. I've always been lonely and I think that shows to everyone