sometimes when we cuddle i start preparing. but it never comes. and then i feel rejected. and then i feel disgusting. but he holds me and loves me through it all.
2026-06-01 13:36:57
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✨ Kelly ✨ :
The cold silent treatment/temper tantrum that follows is engraved into my soul, i think
2026-06-02 20:37:29
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bloodstains.mp4 :
lowk who set this up tho
2026-06-28 20:33:21
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amanda :
i’ll catch my self saying “would you be okay if we stopped” with my heart racing like it’s not my decision.
2026-06-01 01:26:47
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🕷️ :
i always say “are you mad at me” because that’s all i’ve ever known :(
2026-06-03 18:22:27
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mknz :
"why would I want to do something you're not comfortable with? that's no fun for either of us" I love my man
2026-06-01 20:33:11
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xo, simone 💌 :
recently I got a, “that’s okay, I’m kinda tired, too. Let’s take a nap,” and even when I woke up from the nap to go to work he offered to come by my job on my break to bring me a snack and give me a hug. I’m finally safe.
2026-06-02 17:34:03
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Michaela :
I wish more men were gentle
2026-06-05 15:55:16
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j3ster108 :
I try and check that she’s okay thru the whole thing, I know it can be hard to ask to stop when it’s already in motion so I try to give her as many opportunities as she might need to say no or that isn’t okay with something
2026-06-01 13:55:16
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Miss Bojangles :
I also don’t get the silent treatment or made to feel that I am less valuable anymore. I’m getting married in November to a man who never made me feel pressured.
2026-06-01 01:47:39
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Mrsambergreer :
The first time told I told my husband no he said okay like so simple said okay and I genuinely felt guilty and was like well we can anyway and he was like no absolute not you said no
2026-06-04 21:26:56
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💊Kenadryl💊 :
Being met with care and not lust is both the most amazing and heart breaking thing. I just want to be loved but I’ve only even known lust.
2026-06-04 16:35:37
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mads :
I said no and apologized and he just said “it’s okay” and continued cuddling with me. I thought I was gonna cry.
2026-06-01 03:49:06
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Shyanne Pilozzi :
“Baby if it doesn’t bring you pleasure then there’s no pleasure in it for me” - My man 🥹
2026-06-06 18:02:13
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🐀 The Rat Colony 🏳️⚧️🇵🇸 :
Biggest upgrade of my life was from a “could you do it for me anyway?” dude to a “let’s cuddle instead” man
2026-06-06 00:58:02
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Foo Foo Cuddly Puff. :
finding the perfect partner after having the WORST partner is incredibly emotionally jarring. celebrating being married 6yrs to the most loving patient man alive this month 😭💜
2026-06-05 00:32:48
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Katie :
I’m in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in I love my boyfriend so much he always asks first, never gets upset when I say no and still gives me aftercare after even if nothing happened, I cry sometimes but I cry happy tears now because my soul is finally at peace
2026-06-02 02:50:21
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Maddy🫧 :
for all the girls that are getting guilt tripped or manipulated. please leave him. he is not at all worth you time. you should NEVER feel that way. you should never feel scared to ask for a break, stop, slow down, etc. men are supposed to love you not use you like an object. know your worth and boundaries.
2026-06-04 20:51:41
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why 🍎 :
Me and my boyfriend have both said no to each other. We’ve both been like “heh that’s totally okay, let’s watch a movie and cuddle instead 🥰“ it’s really easy but most of us have never had that before….
2026-06-01 15:36:12
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𝕄𝕠𝕣𝕘𝕒𝕟🧸 :
my girlfriend apologized for not being in the mood while I was there to see her. All I could even think to do was just hold her because baby whooo made you feel the need to apologize? No ma’am. I’ll just hold you until the inevitable heat death of the universe if that’s what you need. I love you.
2026-06-02 10:33:51
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._.snickers_1 :
Four years in and I’ll still cry and apologize if I need to stop. We’ve both needed to stop at times and it’s so refreshing
2026-06-01 12:33:39
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Light-ish Red :
when i'm preparing for him to get pissed and all i get is "in that case i have some tiktok's i save for you, wanna watch those" and i know i found the one
2026-06-07 10:39:07
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buttermutted :
When he asks but I’m hesitant to say yes and he instantly goes “we don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to” and just pulls me closer to nap BROOOO
2026-06-05 03:00:38
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bek 🧡🌱☮️🌞🌎 :
after years i can relate to this now. i love my sweet and patient boyfriend
2026-06-01 16:27:38
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