@anxiouslyalej: Decentering your partner is about having an identity, goals, and dreams outside of your romantic relationship #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingadvice #avoidantattachment

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Ash M :

I decentered my husband and it’s caused a lot of issues in our marriage.

2026-07-24 18:32:40

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Resort girl :

My husband and I have an amazing relationship. Occasionally we will disagree on something and I say, “ it’s ok that we think differently on this… we’re different people, we’ll figure it out in a way that works for us both.”

2026-05-30 12:47:43

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chocfonduuu :

I don't believe in this

2026-05-30 08:16:25

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TracieTracieTracie :

Married 29 years. It’s been so much better since I decentered him

2026-07-29 13:49:46

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Lauren | Marriage Dynamics :

Make sure you're decentering your family as well, because that is where those attachment patterns were formed.

2026-06-03 09:10:01

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Naila2345 :

Married for 10 years . What saved my marriage was decent ref

2026-05-30 09:37:38

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Jessica is so curious :

Decentered after 27 years. I'm happy.

2026-05-30 14:37:36

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Rita R :

Your skin is beautiful💯💯💯💯💯

2026-05-30 00:04:41

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angiechefgirl :

Agree 100% great advice!

2026-05-30 00:30:05

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Mind Education Matters (MEM) :

Always pour from a full cup

2026-05-30 09:20:24

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Holly Rena Arline-Hilton :

beautiful skin❣️

2026-05-30 18:49:08

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chanel.intuition :

Spot on girl thank you for validating what I’m trying to do.

2026-05-30 02:20:10

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lu5231 :

True ❤️Full cup

2026-05-30 03:06:23

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Alisa | alisalou_ on ig :

Sooo truee

2026-05-30 16:13:56

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frishtakhedri :

Omg you are so right!

2026-05-30 16:56:31

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CRISTINA🥀❤️‍🔥 :

Love this. All so true. Thank you.

2026-05-31 15:59:47

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TownshipHippie :

Absolutely. I didn’t know my colleague was married until we went to her home for Easter lunch.

2026-05-29 23:16:20

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Paul Tudor :

Sing it with me… AGENCY

2026-05-30 02:54:37

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Angeleyes :

Nonsense.

2026-05-31 01:41:17

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Karen Kelly :

Be youre own person

2026-06-08 22:35:38

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:

I wish I saw this a year ago. exactly what happened to me. I'm emotionally checked out and we are separating.

2026-07-24 22:24:58

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Harley👑Queen :

How do i stand my boundaries? I mean what if he does something he knows I dont like?(asking for future relationships) Do I walk away/break up every time he does that or what?

2026-07-04 18:59:59

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Zachlang :

Yet

2026-05-30 23:22:34

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Kris 🇨🇦 :

YEP 👌

2026-05-30 15:14:44

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