@katilife:

ericaa__xo :

Now I help everyone else instead of myself.

Bëłłå :

When I see someone doing something now, I feel guilty if I don’t start helping…..

vaginikulasegaram :

Wow this really hit!!

human_cucumber :

I’ve never been able to put this into words 😦😳

Alberta Preda :

Same but it’s frustrating when you see that other people have eyes and they just don’t care about the house being a mess

Mikayla | SAHM🩷💙 :

silent repost, but i was here,

IaMaZeBrAcAke :

Same. I don’t even know how to ask for help honestly

Par :

You can change it. Change starts with you because you have the ability to identify this issue.

ℰ𝓉ℯ𝓇𝓃𝒾𝓉𝓎 :

yea no thanks for the reminder

Amber McLeod :

Mine too girl!

Colie :

the expectation was for you to help everyone too?

Marco Mitzdorf :

silent repost

The Jason Holland :

If you gotta ask em if you can help them then you really didn’t want to help out that’s reason for asking. You can tell they could use help and if really wanted to help them you would just do it and not ask if they need it. The reason behind asking if someone needs help is in hopes they will say no but at the same time looks like you wanted to help

Mckenzee Swint :

Me and my boyfriend just had this conversation yesterday and asked what I needed help with and I told him I didn’t need help with anything, but rather I just wanted him to do something to relive my duties a little

Arielle Diamond :

This was mine too. It’s hard to unlearn but I’m slowly getting better at asking for what I need and it honestly clears up so much miscommunication in relationships! It’s a breath of fresh air knowing I can openly ask for what I need

mistyandco :

Eldest daughter

S :

This was a new one but this was exactly how it was

Lilì♡ :

shannon_xo271 :

This is me to the T 😳

Daniel Colley :

So you have identified but don’t do anything to fix it.

Matt :

and your worth = how much you contribute and are present

Sweetie :

Every household has some flaws, nothing is perfect

nelamahina :

I thought it is normal to not ask and for others to see what they should do.. because the other way around I would see if someone needs help and doesn’t say anything and if I don’t help I feel guilty

Sam Sam :

i fear the anxiety makes me a perfect roommate for others. Don’t even have to ask to clean or organize , it’s done like it’s second nature

elizabeth :

My most toxic trait