luhv. :
As a Christian myself, I don't think some of the Christians in these comments are expressing their beliefs in a loving or helpful way. You don't have to agree with this post, but saying things like "It's part of God's plan" "God works in Mysterious ways" "It's the action of humans, not God" etc. can come across as dismissive of what the creator of this post has gone through. People who have experienced terrible things often ask difficult questions about God, and that's normal.
Faith doesn't erase pain, trauma, or grief. Throughout the Bible, people cried out to God, questioned Him, and struggled to understand why suffering exists. Having questions or expressing hurt doesn't automatically mean someone is rejecting God. it can mean they're trying to make sense of what they've been through.
If your first response to someone's trauma is like that then you're probably not helping them. You can disagree with someone's view while still acknowledging their pain.
And As for the Creator of this post, I may not know your full story, and I won't pretend to have answers for everything you've been through. But what happened to you was heartbreaking, and I'm sorry you've had to carry that pain. Whether people agree with your views or not, your suffering shouldn't be dismissed or minimized. I genuinely hope you find healing, and peace. Sending Virtual hugs!
2026-05-31 12:04:45