Forgiveness isn’t always part of healing. Some people don’t need to be forgiven, they just need to be seen clearly for what they did.
2026-05-30 16:18:23
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HonestTi :
Forgiveness and allowing access to you are not the same thing. You can forgive someone and reject their access to you.
2026-05-30 15:48:15
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BRI7 :
Everyone can be forgiven, just not always by us. What I’m unable to forgive, I hand over to God to sort out.
2026-06-17 12:22:25
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Prissilla Jodun :
I agree God is the one who judges & forgives as you said some of the pain that they’ve inflicted will take time to heal however what I do in order to move forward is to forgive myself for allowing someone to hurt me and learn to set boundaries and that is something I learned after living with a narcissist for the last 15 years.
2026-06-12 20:58:14
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practical pagan :
Exactly! I don’t need to forgive anyone to find peace. People who say they forgive a criminal for what he’s done to their family? No don’t forgive anyone for what they did. Leave that to God. And go on with your life.
2026-05-30 19:33:51
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user9053510704525 :
Forgiveness is not primarily about the other person; it is about freeing yourself. It means letting go of the painful emotions attached to the thoughts and beliefs about what happened. It is releasing the feeling that you are forever a victim of someone else’s actions.
Forgiveness does not require you to excuse the wrongdoing, forget what happened, or allow the person back into your life. You may choose never to see them again, and that can be a healthy decision. Forgiveness is simply the decision to stop allowing the past to control your present and future.
When you let go of the emotions that fuel resentment, anger, and bitterness, you take away the power that the other person’s actions have over you. They no longer have the ability to continue hurting you through your own memories and emotional reactions.
In this sense, forgiveness is an act of self-liberation. It is not about changing the past or justifying what was done; it is about reclaiming your peace, your freedom, and your ability to move forward with your life.
2026-06-07 02:28:28
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johnnyrock85 :
Dude. You are so right. Some betrayals are not forgivable.
2026-05-30 18:39:40
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Mariaaah 🤍✨🧠 :
“If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.” -JESUS
Matthew 6 : 14 - 15 NLT
2026-05-31 15:33:10
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MDK2024 :
I fully agree with you. There are examples in the Word of God where even Jesus did not forgive. Like you say, it is up to God to forgive or not.
2026-06-17 11:37:11
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parker1 :
I don’t forgive and especially I don’t forget….
2026-06-05 06:58:49
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dancervibes :
Well said. Permanent scars & consequences. The healing has revealed my capacity to move forward and find an understanding about forgiveness. Thank you for this post
2026-05-30 17:02:11
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Kim Aleatha York :
Forgiveness is selfish. Forgiveness is for you not the person you are forgiving. You can forgive them without them even knowing. You don't need to tell them. It's for you. 🙏 You never have to see or speak to them ever again.
2026-05-31 06:32:09
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LeonieA :
we forgive to keep our hearts 💕 light and clean....and besides ✨️karma is real...judgement is up to a higher power ✨️
2026-06-02 08:39:11
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fadilah1977 :
Forgive yourself for not knowing then what you know now 💯
2026-06-05 01:08:59
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Lesego :
Well said 🤏
2026-06-12 12:14:18
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SassC :
Someone finally said it out loud … thank you for allowing me to feel this intentionally
2026-06-17 00:06:45
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Thaidz :
I forgive, but I don't forget. Lessons teaches you.
2026-06-17 01:48:34
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Nalini Moonsamy :
I get you but I am torn about being disobedient to God. But forgiveness is a process and not something that is achievable instantly. I can only hope it helps us conquer ourselves. But for me I continuously slip but continue to try. it's a constant dilemma.
2026-06-16 18:31:24
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MelanyvanThol :
I love this man in the way he is explaining things! OMG! Thank you
2026-05-30 15:42:54
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DOPE :
Forgiveness doesn't automatically erase the hurt, it brings you peace.
2026-06-03 15:04:02
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123 :
So true❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-30 15:30:03
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Bruj_sogina :
There are situations in life where negotiation isn't an option. Forgiveness isn't negotiable, and not everything is forgivable, because nothing is absolute. When something breaks, there's no going back. The only option left is to move on, understand the pain that was caused to us, or the pain we caused, and decide not to cling to it. Sometimes, losing is also winning. And we can continue without looking back, without forgiving. In peace.🌹
2026-05-30 17:27:29
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Katie Martin :
Truth
2026-05-30 20:59:30
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Laurie9 :
You can forgive yourself for allowing someone to take advantage, cheat and lie to you so you can heal, move on and never allow someone to treat you that way ever again BUT never do you have to forgive that person who hurt you!!
2026-05-31 02:13:45
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Tina 🇭🇷❤️🔥 :
I cannot forgive, and never will. But I am at peace.
2026-05-31 21:02:13
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