@drjulie: 👉 The last one is something every people pleaser should know. It certainly changed the way I live for the better. Being a good person and standing up for yourself are not opposites. In fact, in order to truly live out your own definition of being a good person, it is essential to be able to advocate for yourself. The reason is that you are not always dealing with people who want the best for you or care what the outcomes are for you. 👉 For more on this my New York Times Bestseller, ‘Open When..’ is now in paperback for only £5.48 on Amazon in UK and also discounted in the US. Available in over 35 Languages. Also check out my million copy bestselling 1st book ‘Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?’ Links to both are in my bio.

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coffee_lover2520
🦇💪🏼🐝☕Paige☕🐝💪🏼🦇 :
you've helped me so much😭 I have all your books!
2026-05-30 15:27:13
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annohara5
Ann Ohara :
Wow you’ve just described me and how I’m feeling … now I understand better and looking forward to a life reset and changes x
2026-05-31 07:50:42
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mindshift.daily100
mindshift daily :
wow thank you ✨️
2026-06-16 17:16:37
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serenitywithrebeca
Rebeca Paiva · Therapist :
the moment you stop earning love and start receiving it, everything changes ❤️
2026-06-01 12:37:44
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alchemist495
Mina-essence 🎤🧚🏻 :
I am realizing that I healed all the 3 things. I am not a people pleaser anymore 😅🔥😇🧚🏻💃.I don’t give a fuck about what ppl say or think about me! 💕😍🔥💃
2026-05-31 12:45:12
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p_jnumber4
pJnumber4 :
I hope you do a Tik Tok about identity issues one day, I feel so lost I don’t know who I am anymore more
2026-05-31 20:47:03
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lindsay.fleminglpc
Lindsay Fleming, lcpc :
Always love seeing you on my fyp
2026-05-30 16:35:22
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wayne.355.zion1
Wayne :
I ❤️you Dr Julie and i will always appreciate your content. 🙏❤️
2026-05-31 01:25:13
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jhn_zepha
John Zephania :
thanks
2026-05-30 17:48:38
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domfacchino
Dommo :
I’m a number 4 I’m completely screwed
2026-05-30 22:40:59
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mentalhealthidea
Vaness :
I want to change…. But I only feel valuable when I’m pleasing someone…
2026-05-30 20:37:27
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boermans73
Thierry :
Autch. This hits home
2026-05-30 17:31:51
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sukivanenk1
sukivanenk1 :
I needed this to hear at the moment, thank you! ✨
2026-05-30 19:51:54
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zarulnaim_
Zarul_Naim :
the timing is unbelievable, it came right on time, thanks
2026-05-30 15:44:20
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gentlemindjourney
Gentle Mind Journey :
Very good points. 🤍
2026-05-31 19:09:30
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ck_marshi
Chanuli bear :
Needed to hear this 🥺
2026-05-30 16:59:03
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laurenschenck2020
Lauren Schenck :
Definitely 😍
2026-05-30 21:21:22
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epha12psyc
Epha :
i wanna learn clinical psychology Masters by scholarship what Can i do Please can you belp me
2026-05-31 15:38:12
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lillierrico88
Lilli Errico ✨🙏✨ :
Absolutely love this 🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-30 15:17:46
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zohiryoubi6
sosheep :
i act like a mom to everyone :'l
2026-06-12 14:10:42
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rtacs_nam
R-Tacs 🔥 :
Wise and beautiful words ❤️
2026-06-09 04:27:18
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patcool19
patcool :
just here to let you know that your lessons are really helping some of us out here who are facing those challenges 🙏
2026-06-08 10:27:14
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iheart_78
Carly :
I hate myself because I am a 1000% people pleaser. I’m scared to make friends & if I do, I then distance myself because they’ll abandon me anyway 🥺🥺
2026-06-06 18:08:12
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nurazianie79
nurazianie :
"i didnt sign fr permissions..its my own.valued..actions.thats all"
2026-06-06 07:22:05
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jennijownd8
❌Jennifer❌ :
I am definitely a people pleaser and I hate that
2026-06-10 02:11:06
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