@drjulie: 👉 The last one is something every people pleaser should know. It certainly changed the way I live for the better. Being a good person and standing up for yourself are not opposites. In fact, in order to truly live out your own definition of being a good person, it is essential to be able to advocate for yourself. The reason is that you are not always dealing with people who want the best for you or care what the outcomes are for you. 👉 For more on this my New York Times Bestseller, ‘Open When..’ is now in paperback for only £5.48 on Amazon in UK and also discounted in the US. Available in over 35 Languages. Also check out my million copy bestselling 1st book ‘Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?’ Links to both are in my bio.
Wow you’ve just described me and how I’m feeling … now I understand better and looking forward to a life reset and changes x
2026-05-31 07:50:42
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Vaness :
I want to change…. But I only feel valuable when I’m pleasing someone…
2026-05-30 20:37:27
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Unstuck Sage|Healing Guide 🌿 :
Most people do these things without knowing the negative impact it has on them. Well done Dr Julie!
2026-05-31 23:36:18
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ThriveSpace+ Wellbeing Support :
People pleasing in common in corporate - trying to survive the workday or trying to get ahead in a highly competitive field. A fear-based behaviour that I ended up doing when the goal posts kept moving - it drove me away from my true self, and the misalignment have further implications on how I showed up. A reflection along my growth journey has help me realise these behaviours that were detrimental to my wellbeing. ❤️
2026-06-22 03:45:40
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Mindset Transforms :
True
2026-06-26 16:01:43
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Blur15 :
Thank Dr 👍
2026-07-18 03:25:23
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Wayne :
I ❤️you Dr Julie and i will always appreciate your content. 🙏❤️
2026-05-31 01:25:13
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sukivanenk1 :
I needed this to hear at the moment, thank you! ✨
2026-05-30 19:51:54
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Dommo :
I’m a number 4 I’m completely screwed
2026-05-30 22:40:59
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Tu•Na :
Thank you 🙏 very good 🫶
2026-06-03 12:53:55
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Gentle Mind Journey :
Very good points. 🤍
2026-05-31 19:09:30
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John Zephania :
thanks
2026-05-30 17:48:38
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Lindsay Fleming, lcpc :
Always love seeing you on my fyp
2026-05-30 16:35:22
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keviin :
three weeks since I finished Manifest without chasing by Elena Hayes and the synchronicities won't stop. this is actually crazy
2026-05-30 20:20:48
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Lauren Schenck :
Definitely 😍
2026-05-30 21:21:22
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Epha :
i wanna learn clinical psychology Masters by scholarship what Can i do Please can you belp me
2026-05-31 15:38:12
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✨🙏Crazy FCUKin Gemini🙏✨ :
Absolutely love this 🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-30 15:17:46
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Mina-essence 🎤🧚🏻 :
I am realizing that I healed all the 3 things. I am not a people pleaser anymore 😅🔥😇🧚🏻💃.I don’t give a fuck about what ppl say or think about me! 💕😍🔥💃
2026-05-31 12:45:12
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Zarul_Naim :
the timing is unbelievable, it came right on time, thanks
2026-05-30 15:44:20
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pJnumber4 :
I hope you do a Tik Tok about identity issues one day, I feel so lost I don’t know who I am anymore more
2026-05-31 20:47:03
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Chanuli bear :
Needed to hear this 🥺
2026-05-30 16:59:03
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dr.adhd💙 💜love me Eternally :
agreed fair. honest.
😁boundaries
invisible
2026-07-30 00:37:01
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Soul Spikez :
this is soooo me
2026-07-31 22:25:49
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