@drjulie: 👉 The last one is something every people pleaser should know. It certainly changed the way I live for the better. Being a good person and standing up for yourself are not opposites. In fact, in order to truly live out your own definition of being a good person, it is essential to be able to advocate for yourself. The reason is that you are not always dealing with people who want the best for you or care what the outcomes are for you. 👉 For more on this my New York Times Bestseller, ‘Open When..’ is now in paperback for only £5.48 on Amazon in UK and also discounted in the US. Available in over 35 Languages. Also check out my million copy bestselling 1st book ‘Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?’ Links to both are in my bio.
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Saturday 30 May 2026 15:14:03 GMT
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🦇💪🏼🐝☕Paige☕🐝💪🏼🦇 :
you've helped me so much😭 I have all your books!
2026-05-30 15:27:13
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Ann Ohara :
Wow you’ve just described me and how I’m feeling … now I understand better and looking forward to a life reset and changes x
2026-05-31 07:50:42
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mindshift daily :
wow thank you ✨️
2026-06-16 17:16:37
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Rebeca Paiva · Therapist :
the moment you stop earning love and start receiving it, everything changes ❤️
2026-06-01 12:37:44
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Mina-essence 🎤🧚🏻 :
I am realizing that I healed all the 3 things. I am not a people pleaser anymore 😅🔥😇🧚🏻💃.I don’t give a fuck about what ppl say or think about me! 💕😍🔥💃
2026-05-31 12:45:12
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pJnumber4 :
I hope you do a Tik Tok about identity issues one day, I feel so lost I don’t know who I am anymore more
2026-05-31 20:47:03
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Lindsay Fleming, lcpc :
Always love seeing you on my fyp
2026-05-30 16:35:22
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Wayne :
I ❤️you Dr Julie and i will always appreciate your content. 🙏❤️
2026-05-31 01:25:13
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John Zephania :
thanks
2026-05-30 17:48:38
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Dommo :
I’m a number 4 I’m completely screwed
2026-05-30 22:40:59
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Vaness :
I want to change…. But I only feel valuable when I’m pleasing someone…
2026-05-30 20:37:27
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Thierry :
Autch. This hits home
2026-05-30 17:31:51
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sukivanenk1 :
I needed this to hear at the moment, thank you! ✨
2026-05-30 19:51:54
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Zarul_Naim :
the timing is unbelievable, it came right on time, thanks
2026-05-30 15:44:20
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Gentle Mind Journey :
Very good points. 🤍
2026-05-31 19:09:30
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Chanuli bear :
Needed to hear this 🥺
2026-05-30 16:59:03
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Lauren Schenck :
Definitely 😍
2026-05-30 21:21:22
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Epha :
i wanna learn clinical psychology Masters by scholarship what Can i do Please can you belp me
2026-05-31 15:38:12
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Lilli Errico ✨🙏✨ :
Absolutely love this 🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-30 15:17:46
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sosheep :
i act like a mom to everyone :'l
2026-06-12 14:10:42
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R-Tacs 🔥 :
Wise and beautiful words ❤️
2026-06-09 04:27:18
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patcool :
just here to let you know that your lessons are really helping some of us out here who are facing those challenges 🙏
2026-06-08 10:27:14
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Carly :
I hate myself because I am a 1000% people pleaser. I’m scared to make friends & if I do, I then distance myself because they’ll abandon me anyway 🥺🥺
2026-06-06 18:08:12
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nurazianie :
"i didnt sign fr permissions..its my own.valued..actions.thats all"
2026-06-06 07:22:05
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❌Jennifer❌ :
I am definitely a people pleaser and I hate that
2026-06-10 02:11:06
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