@redditysha: I paid $6,400 to help my cousin move abroad. Then got a text. You're not invited to her farewell dinner. It's more of a family thing. My mom said, "Why are you making this awkward?" So, I didn't. I paused the travel assistance and updated my status on the lease. At night, my aunt sent a voice note. I played it twice just to be sure I heard right. I didn't hesitate when she asked.