Monica Frasier 💖
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Sunday 31 May 2026 00:37:18 GMT
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Dani O 💕 :
We are learning how to parent in real time just like our kids are learning how to be tiny humans in real time. It’s not always perfect. Sometimes our emotions aren’t regulated and things happen! You’re not alone in feeling like that. But I’m sure the fun memories you are making FAR outweigh the yelling and your kiddos won’t remember that part.
2026-05-31 00:58:54
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Lorraine :
This was me today. Were all in this together mama, dont be hard on yourself.
2026-05-31 01:36:25
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MeganFroncz :
The mom guilt post bedtime is the worst 😭
2026-05-31 01:18:36
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Meggy :
I yelled at my almost 11 month old today because he ran over my toes with his walker because I was overstimulated because he is teething and has been so whiney and clingy all day long. He didn’t know any better he was just scooting along in the kitchen having the time of his life and I felt so bad for getting angry with him because how did he know he was gonna run over my toes 🥺
2026-06-01 16:19:17
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meg.han.c :
After I yell (because it happens to all of us) I say “I’m sorry mommy yelled, I was just frustrated”. I feel like that has helped. My kids understand that everyone has big emotions, even mommy.
2026-05-31 11:39:18
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Charissa Bedford :
When you sat down and talked about sometimes just snapping…. I literally felt that so hard. Some days I’m perfectly ok and sometimes I cannot deal with it. I feel so bad 🥺
2026-05-31 01:25:59
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caseyjo :
Never a bad mom. It’s your first time living life too 💙
2026-05-31 01:24:56
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Simply Colleen :
I feel the same way! Shorts are cute! Where are they from?
2026-06-01 02:39:48
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April Cox :
You are NOT a bad mom!! Teaching emotional regulation while still trying to learn it yourself is HARD! I’ll be 40 in Aug with a 3.5yo boy and I struggle soooo much some days with him. The one thing I do try to do is when I lose my cool on him I stop, calm down, then I apologize and tell him that I will try to do better just like I ask him to do. We are human and the biggest thing is teaching them that it’s ok to mess up but we acknowledge it and work on getting better every day!
2026-06-01 15:17:04
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Justine :
same with the work boots💀
2026-05-31 01:06:40
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Emily :
You are not alone, I have had these same feeling. The post bedtime mom guilt is real. It’s hard to regulate your emotions all day every single day.
2026-05-31 15:24:55
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Specialk619 💜 :
I know exactly how you feel
2026-05-31 20:06:16
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Shannon Murphy605 :
Your gallery wall up the stairs is soooooo nice omg
2026-06-01 02:56:16
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Olivia Mia :
These thoughts are so real. I feel the exact same way. Your videos are so comforting and affirming.
2026-05-31 04:02:39
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Natalie Horstman :
you’re a great mom! give yourself some grace 🩷💙
2026-05-31 00:52:17
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Emily Seltrecht :
Love doing a closing shift w/ you 🫶🏼 thank you for making me feel so normal in motherhood
2026-05-31 22:03:54
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Jen A | FTM 💙 :
where are these shorts from??!!
2026-06-02 00:21:05
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Lexi Fickert ◡̈ :
I relate to this so much, there are so many days when I feel like I overreacted or yelled too much and I will genuinely cry when they go to bed 🥺
2026-06-01 02:21:27
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CL_300 :
I’m just so impressed that you got this all done in 1 hour 20 min!! You go girl!
2026-06-01 00:37:30
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Alex | Mom ~ Teach ~ Farm :
Thank you for normalizing these feelings. 🥰 I saw a TikTok today that said “I want my kid to know that I’m a first-generation gentle parent & I’m trying my best because my first instinct is to knock you into next week.” 😅 We trying to unlearn bad habits from our own families and the pop culture of our childhood and learn how to better parent in real time. IT IS FREAKING HARD.
2026-05-31 03:07:58
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Justine Jean :
Wait no!! You’re a great mom!!!🩷
2026-05-31 01:39:45
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lexinichole :
You’re an amazing mom!💕
2026-05-31 00:56:34
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Kathleen :
Same girl- for me- it’s allowing him to be independent (the “I do it”) but also wanting to just do it for him cuz it take 5 years longer (more like 5 secs and I know that) but then he cries and then I get frustrated and then we both cry.
2026-05-31 01:44:30
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Natalie Horstman :
nothing like a good closing shift! 🤪
2026-05-31 00:51:02
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Hayley Tiefenbrunn :
You are so not alone. 3 has been challenging for us as well! & I have the same feelings and thoughts after I snap too. Makes me feel so bad because I don’t want to be that mom. But I try telling myself, it’s going to benefit us when they’re 12, being tough now.
2026-05-31 02:38:51
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