@sarahealz: no matter if they’re an ex or situationship, it’s about developing your own self confidence and value <3 #SelfImprovement #datingtips #avoidant #relationshiptips #relationships
To whichever young girl needs to see this today: if you're stressing because he is not texting you anymore, or if you're simply getting ghosted after a few dates, you must read make him quietly obsessed by mia mercer, it is one of the best dating books out there.
2026-06-02 21:21:19
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Renata :
The Secret Book of Fortune by Isak Voren is the closest thing to a leaked memo you'll ever read in book form
2026-05-31 22:55:46
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ℒ :
this would js make me block u faster
2026-05-31 18:14:09
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𝑛𝑜 𝑐𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑒𝑟 𝑖𝑑⭒ :
or maybe leave them alone
2026-05-31 17:36:47
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ℒ𝓋 :
Just let them be. They are not worth your energy ❤️
2026-05-31 10:06:05
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ψʰᵘᵇᵉʳᵗ :
it literally triggered my avoidance
2026-05-31 14:57:39
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pipii🪷 :
as an avoidant u don’t need to do this just learn to be patient and give space
2026-05-31 18:34:28
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ᰔsash’ :
i wish i wasn’t avoidant
2026-06-01 12:41:23
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оляяяяяя :
Idc i just show up as myself and whoever sticks around is a real one no matter their attachment type
2026-05-31 13:55:47
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MMW :
Be yourself and stop wasting your time for people who AVOID you. You are more than that, and you deserve to be chosen, to be free to double text, post , and express your feelings. They are free to avoid, b free to live
2026-06-01 12:37:25
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uwu :
as an avoidant this kills me
2026-05-31 12:01:10
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warnawinko🪷 :
no guys just choose someone who wants to choose you stop looking for how to , stop 😭 just be with someone who dont give you " why" or what to do
2026-05-31 22:12:51
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шура :
my heart was not build for games.
2026-05-31 21:29:43
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razvv :
Im the avoidant
2026-05-31 19:28:08
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🚾 :
or just live
2026-05-31 17:26:33
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Stella🚀⭐️ :
As an avoidant this would make my anxiety worse lol
2026-05-31 21:50:40
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★stevie :
why should i put 100% effort in to being someone im not for someone who cant put 100% effort in to love me?
2026-06-01 18:06:29
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mat.cover :
I wish I would have read this before it ever happened. Loving an avoidant is probably the most hurtful experience in love. You start believing in someone again, and then it is only a matter of time until they return to their nature and leave you will all of your expectations alone. They made you believe, entertained you, maybe even loved you, and disappear the next day because it is suddenly “too much for them to handle” and they “weren’t ready”. It’s been two years, and everyday I still think about it. The worse thing is that I can’t even blame her, I should have seen the sign and be courageous enough to be selfish. Hope she’s doing fine.
2026-05-31 18:26:20
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wid :
this is someone's life
2026-05-31 16:37:11
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nonetun :
hell a lot of work
2026-06-02 11:29:54
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Miyazaki rei :
as an avoidant reading this, well it's actually true
2026-06-03 09:38:33
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Bastiano1346 :
just show them you love them brah
2026-06-01 16:59:44
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𐙚˚ mango milkshake :
I have learned recently that I have an avoidant attachment with friendships.. when I’m alone with someone I actually care about, one on one, and they make me feel special and loved.. i freeze and I don’t know how to react genuinely.. and there are times when I push people away because I feel that people will get sick of me eventually, so I do it first… so I’m the end.. it’s my fault that I’m alone
2026-06-03 02:00:31
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