@andersoncooper: Mariksa Hargitay thought the sadness and isolation she felt as a child after her mom's death would never go away. She tells Anderson Cooper how, with practice and self-compassion, the pain began to dissipate. Watch the conversation at cnn.com/allthereis or wherever you get your podcasts. #grief #grieftok #griefandloss
I’ve learned that unconditional love is not for others, it’s for ourselves.
2026-05-31 13:15:41
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Soudog 🇨🇦 :
We don't get over grief. We don't manage grief. We carry it with us. It helps define us.
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2026-06-01 01:23:26
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onelifenic :
Damn we are sad
2026-06-19 04:43:51
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lauren.davenport5 :
The strange thing about grief is that it asks to be felt, not fixed. The more we try to outrun it, the heavier it becomes. The moment we turn toward it, it begins to change us. The paradox of grief is that healing begins the moment we stop trying to escape it. What is fully felt eventually changes form.💕
2026-06-01 19:21:44
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Anne 🇨🇦 :
She’s a wonderful woman.
2026-05-31 13:19:57
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alisonjuda :
Anderson, this is so important and you're so good at holding space for this discussion. #grieftalk
2026-05-31 12:49:53
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Froy :
Can’t believe I almost skipped The Hidden Life Code by Mason Beckerman, feels like knowledge we were never meant to find.
2026-06-01 12:46:30
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user mygoldcoastqld :
Love this
2026-06-01 06:24:32
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MadsMom :
not there yet
2026-06-02 02:42:28
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Teneille :
I love the way she explains this. So beautiful 🥰🙏🏻
2026-06-01 02:47:57
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carolin225🌿 :
This is really meaningful to me today!
2026-05-31 16:53:15
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user8153749927018 :
She is a master teacher. Incredible.
2026-05-31 19:32:53
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Halfpenny :
I lost my mom at six. Every life event and Mother’s Day is accompanied by a sleeve of grief. You learn to tolerate it.
2026-06-01 12:52:59
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ThatsCrazy :
Coping skills can be learned
2026-06-18 08:41:53
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Bean :
To be able to cry and let it out, it is healing, hard though when you can't bc you've had to be 'strong ' for so many losses
2026-05-31 23:12:50
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Dustin Adams :
I thought what Andrew Garfield said about grief was beautifully expressed "it [grief] is all the unexpressed love you no longer have the chance to share with someone because they are no longer there to receive it" 💙
2026-06-03 13:57:43
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beth :
I fucking love this woman. So much.
2026-06-02 03:21:29
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alexandra cabot :
"there is" oh it hurts
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Zack Allen :
She is amazing
2026-05-31 08:01:10
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𝕸𝖆𝖌𝖎𝖐𝖊𝖑𝖑 :
She basically summarized my last two years of therapy. Grief is overwhelming. Immobilizing, even. As much as we need to give ourselves grace, we also need our grief acknowledged and to know we aren't alone in it. Sometimes it's hard to see when you're so consumed by it.
2026-06-02 07:11:49
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calliope0704 :
A gut wrenching cry every day is what I experienced the first year after my husband died from esophageal cancer. Then I noticed one day that I didn’t cry and eventually it was less and less. I’m always sad beneath living my life, but as she says, I tolerate the grief just a bit more now. I’m still working so hard to live my life as the two year anniversary approaches. People tell me I’m strong, but I don’t have a choice. I have sons and aging parents that need me and I want to be here for them. Thank you, Anderson, for having the strength to host this podcast. ❤️
2026-05-31 16:23:23
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shaylahc1 :
I needed to hear this today. Thank you
2026-05-31 22:34:10
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Rose Mary :
Lone survivor of my 5 siblings and parents and grief took me somewhere I never knew existed. Even though the pain still persists, I work on trying to externalize the pain relieving the internal grief , but it’s an exhausting struggle.
2026-06-01 00:03:38
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DeDeKay :
Crying does help. Sharing definitely helps. I knew it was getting better when I could speak their names with joy instead of sadness.
2026-05-31 17:32:43
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LadyLanore :
I miss my momma so much. I'm really sad and do feel a little better after I cry. 💔
2026-06-04 09:00:45
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