For what it’s worth, you can say you feel uncomfortable WITHOUT asking her to stop. If you’re just sharing your feelings it’s not controlling anything about her
2026-05-31 17:26:03
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Kate Haggerty :
“Is my attention not enough” doesn’t show control. It shows vulnerability.
2026-05-31 18:43:17
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Crystal :
That’s fine…but you had BEST be controlling your eyes!
2026-06-01 06:17:36
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Matt :
I think this is a healthy form of communication becuse of the way it was approached and how you were able to maturely communicate the way you were feeling
2026-06-01 04:06:33
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stylz_x20 :
Ultimatums aim to control somebody often with a threat, but boundaries are communicating what you will and will not stick around for. Often times those that get upset with your boundaries are usually the ones benefiting from you not having any. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with asking for respect from your partner and letting them know how disrespect makes you feel.
2026-06-02 04:11:50
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The Only BJG :
The comment section is not passing the vibe check.
2026-06-02 05:43:31
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steph :
Sounds like ownership and insecurity but at least he communicated it respectfully I guess
2026-06-02 18:55:39
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Chicken Handler :
Bless you sir. 🙏
2026-06-02 19:14:21
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Valerie Yaun :
Aw
2026-05-31 15:54:44
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BalancingAct69 :
my guy knows eyes will be on me regardless. hes going out with me at least meb are less likely to actually try to speak with me.
2026-06-01 11:20:56
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MARIA HYLAND :
It’s not controlling if that’s your feeling about one particular top. It gets weird when you put on her that she’s doing it for other people‘s validation because your enough. You are putting words in her mouth that she hasn’t said. Could’ve been as simple as she thought it was a cutie top.
2026-06-01 16:47:32
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Scarlet 🩷💜💙 :
It’s okay as long as if she says no and still wants to wear it. You can be okay with that.
2026-05-31 18:11:48
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Devon :
don't assume she wants or even notices the attention.
2026-05-31 21:32:50
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Jake Smith :
If I say no and she continues to wear it that’s fine, but I can then continue the process of no longer being with her anymore 😂
2026-06-02 01:27:45
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Ćùýlaxwqn :
so instead of him doing the inner work to help himself be more secure. hes asking her to change
2026-06-01 13:32:32
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Ukraine995 :
I wish that modestly would come back as the norm…. Like yes, be proud of how you look, but wouldn’t it feel so much better to show ppl that aren’t used to seeing it? Idk, I’m someone that always was conservative in the way I dress
2026-06-01 21:38:02
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taylor :
My man knows he ain’t aloud to leave our home with his hat backwards. He’s already hot, and then he turns the hat backwards 🤤
2026-06-01 19:44:43
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jacey :
My thing is he assumed she was doing it for attention. That’s the root issue
2026-06-01 14:51:59
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Pom :
😂😂😂
2026-05-31 21:32:57
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