I get you. 3 months post breakup for me, I yearn for love but I’m absolutely not ready to even think about putting myself out and start dating again. I’m trying to be patient with myself during my healing but I just crave real connections so much.
2026-05-31 13:58:37
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Camacho :
Why is no one talking about The Hidden Life Code by Mason Beckerman? This book messed with my whole perception of confidence and power.
2026-05-31 15:33:28
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vee ⚢ :
dude, four months really isn't that long TBH. There's nothing wrong with you. You're just still healing and that's totally OK. Just keep doing your thing. Keep focusing on healing and when you find somebody that you click with it'll just happen naturally and it's you know it's OK if you're scared that's what happens when we get hurt. Just be honest with them about it. you really prob won't know if you're ready until it happens yanno
2026-05-31 04:32:50
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Jess 🏳️🌈 :
Dating post breakup is SO HARD like I can’t go through all that again
2026-05-31 15:39:03
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Lauren Iglesias :
how many lesbians are in this situation? om
2026-07-18 03:59:34
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venus :
also 3 months post break up & absolutely NOT ready to date bye
2026-05-31 12:00:36
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Char 🌸🇨🇦🍁 :
Just means you’re not fully ready to date. ^^
2026-05-31 03:52:28
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Caroline 🕴️ :
It’s OK to also not be ready to date. When you really love someone that takes a while to heal and that’s okay too
2026-05-31 03:12:01
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kvri.lynn :
Oh honey. Don’t force yourself to do anything. The person will come out of no where. Love yourself and choose yourself and this person will love you and grow with you. I’m proud of you for trying. It’s okay to be scared. Someone will calm your storm.
2026-05-31 16:41:19
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vantacherry :
take your time, you're allowed to meet new people and be honest about where you're at. It's not your responsibility to entertain them on dates, it's okay to be awkward and human 🖤 have fun angel
2026-05-31 03:19:54
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annamuse | writer 🌈 :
I relate to this a lot. Lately I’ve been pushing myself to stay open even when I want to cancel, and I’m learning most people aren’t nearly as scary as my anxiety says they are. Also, I think people underestimate how lonely it can feel when everyone just says “focus on yourself.” Sometimes you do that and still want connection.
2026-05-31 03:22:26
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rorystellar :
I went from anxious to avoidant after a rough break up too, you’re not alone! 🫶
2026-05-31 03:40:33
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sarvi ⸆⸉ :
i’m exactly where you’re at right now. i remember seeing your videos right after my ex broke up with me, and we’ve been going along this journey at the same pace. it’s comforting knowing someone is feeling the same things i am.
2026-06-01 21:13:23
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SailorBeast :
You’re so young! Let it flow
2026-05-31 07:16:30
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Liv🩸 :
2 years post breakup and I’m still single. I’m not lonely anymore and I have no interest in dating rn because I am working so hard on becoming the best possible version of myself. My person will come when she comes and it’s my job to make sure I’m ready for her❤️
2026-05-31 21:48:31
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greerbabyy :
a lot of healing is being brave enough to be heard (even to yourself) before you try to understand what you’re saying
2026-05-31 03:58:09
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Kate :
realll, about to be 3 months post breakup and everything just feels weird
2026-05-31 02:39:34
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✨ Sophia ✨ :
I just had this convo on avoidance with my friends! I’m not an avoidant person but now I have these tendencies that aren’t even my fault 😞
2026-05-31 02:40:37
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lily ana ◡̈ :
felt every word 🥲
2026-05-31 03:24:58
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Destin :
These are completely my thoughts when I run out of distractions— my emotions catch up to me
2026-05-31 02:39:47
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sophiephillips22 :
you got this. I would sayyyyy go bc who knows? If it is your person, the conversation will come naturally and it’ll be fun. And if it’s not a vibe, you can always politely leave if necessary and that’s like worst case scenario. and if it’s not a romantic connection you could always make a new friend 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
2026-05-31 02:52:13
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Kar :
I completely know what u mean. I thought I found my person and realizing that this person is not going to be the love of my life is so hard. And I want to find the love of my life, but I don’t want the talkin stage and like getting to know someone. Like I want to get to know someone better, but not in that way like I js want to be in love 😭😭😭
2026-07-02 23:01:44
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angelicshroom :
Girl so so sorry, every time I return to your page you are post break up omg
2026-07-25 21:59:44
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laila🧚🏽👾 :
i think that’s the lesson tho, maybe everyone shouldnt have access to all our love
2026-07-26 20:19:32
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NIKKI💋🏳️🌈 :
Honestly I get it I had a 5 year relationship and I used to go relationship to to relationship before that was my longest one I lived with the person everything and after the break up it destroyed me.
2026-06-04 16:58:40
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