Mine has been gone for almost 4 years. I’m still struggling.
2026-06-01 14:05:14
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leslievlulu :
My dad died 2 weeks ago. I have tried to prepare for it for a while but it’s truly just been days
2026-06-01 02:05:43
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EmPress 💫💛 :
literally just had this conversation with myself 💛
2026-06-21 14:51:52
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Pixie✨️ :
my dad died 11 years ago & i just lost my mom in january. now the grief just hits harder knowing I don't have my parents for any milestones, not my wedding, if I have children, etc. and that hurts the worst
2026-06-15 11:52:11
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Trish :
There was a before me and an after me. Dad died august 2024 and we just put my mom on hospice last week. I’m so scared to lose them both before I’m even 30.
2026-06-16 22:21:36
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Kaia Tahchawwickah :
My dad passed away Sunday and I still don’t know how I’m going to survive without him😭💔
2026-06-07 00:38:14
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Megan Wallingford :
My dad died a few months ago I found him 😞 I shouldn’t be shopping for a dress and writing a speech for his funeral at my age .
2026-06-08 01:01:13
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emilyw8525 :
I was told it doesn’t get easier/better, but it does get different. Almost 15 years later, I can say it does get different.
2026-06-16 17:53:07
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kay :
God I fucking miss him I get married in 19 days and I am NOT OKAY
2026-06-02 11:56:52
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Ashley Compton :
my dad died in April of 24. I don't care about others opinions or perspective on me anymore, but I care a whole lot more about genuinely taking care of myself. I care more about my health and overall well being. I never expected to change like this, but I like to delude myself into thinking he's fishing in whatever relax he might be in and saying "damn, she's doing wonderful and im so proud of who she's become. thats my girl"
im so sorry you're part of the club now, but always be proud of who you're becoming 💜
2026-06-04 06:53:26
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Sarah Lee :
Best way to honour your dad is to take care of his daughter 💙
2026-06-10 23:13:55
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Rachael Beck :
my dad passed in 2018 and this is the first time I've heard this perspective, and God I'm so thankful 🙏
2026-06-21 07:20:27
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Ivy5555 :
I lost my dad three years ago. Sometimes I still feel so sad and angry because life can seem so unfair. Watching everyone else move on and look happy while you're grieving behind closed doors is incredibly hard. Some days it's just impossible to pretend that everything is okay, so I keep to myself most of the time. Grief changes you, and some days it feels heavier than others.
2026-06-18 21:27:47
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Cyn Ezra :
6 years and still grieving everyday. Every new accomplishment and milestone brings a sadness because I can’t share it with my dad.
2026-06-16 10:05:13
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MellsBelles :
My therapist says this journey is now Melanie 2.0 to find out who I am without my dad and who I actually am. I realized how much he controlled my life…I don’t know who I am.
2026-06-16 19:46:07
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paulshelton102 :
Love you Harold 🤙❤️
2026-06-11 23:47:50
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Danielle :
thank you its been a few years but it was nice to hear that
2026-06-21 09:09:30
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Derick Rowe :
mom died 1 year ago today. this is so true. not only did I change/changing my life has been a huge roller coaster of internal emotions.
2026-06-20 23:50:42
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Vee ✨ :
Today’s my dad’s birthday, he passed 7 years ago and this past year I’ve been struggling hard being in school and him not being here. I really needed this today. ❤️
2026-06-09 13:25:49
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natalieanndishman :
I’m so sorry for your loss. My dad died nearly 10 years ago, I recently saw something about how your dad would want you to take care of his daughter. I’ve started living the life I know he always wanted me to be. Caring for my body & mental health, experiencing new things, having fun, loving life. I look back to where I was at that 5-6 month mark, it’s incredible hard and so much to handle. Please don’t forget to take care of you!!! 🩷
2026-05-31 03:45:58
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ja__kobi :
Thank you to everyone who has commented. I am reading through these with tears in my eyes. What a relief that we are not in this alone.
2026-06-02 22:54:34
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JEN~G :
I needed to hear this. Thank you. Thank you for saying it out loud. I feel lost, confused and have been desperate to find me. But I’m gone to and you just made me realized that.
2026-05-31 16:25:46
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Jillian Sprouse :
It’s a journey, it makes you who you are. It builds you and breaks you at the same time. Grief is beautiful but wrecking all in one… you’ve got this! I’m going on 7 years without him and I’m still learning
2026-06-19 04:26:10
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kayla :
my dad passed 3 years ago and I am still trying to find the new me. this meant alot
2026-06-16 12:56:53
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Cheryl Garcia :
Agreed 1000%
2026-06-11 06:50:34
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