@redditstories_doggo: I thought I hit it off pretty well with a girl on our first date, and she said yes to a second, but now she's saying she lost interest because I was acting "flaky and uninterested" because I've been busy with work. Plus one update. Posted by: u/flakysuitor #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #redditdoggo #minecraftparkour #storytime
taking 3 weeks to figure out a second date is crazy… idk if i misunderstood the story or not
2026-06-01 15:21:30
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laris :
“I’ve been busy with work **and friends**” yeah right there
2026-06-02 17:45:24
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bouffdaddae :
she’s not crazy at all. she’s better than me, i would’ve ghosted him
2026-06-02 08:42:42
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#1 chiaki nanami lover :
it would've been fine if they were just incompatible but it was worrying that his first instinct was to demonise her. glad he learned
2026-06-01 15:59:43
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Sugarplumprincess <3 :
But she’s not asking for a commitment? OP mentioned “weeks” of no talking? To build a bond there needs to be consistency & a conversation?
2026-06-01 21:25:26
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Letum :
imo she's totally valid
2026-06-01 15:03:46
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wawa⁷ :
They went on ONE (1) date and he tried scheduling the second one last minute. If you’re that busy then maybe it’s not the right time to date at all.
2026-06-01 16:16:03
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Sam :
I think it was pretty mature of her to tell you why instead of just ghosting you.
2026-06-02 00:11:12
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user2539392358570 is cute :
no cuz this was the most level-headed message from her possible
2026-06-02 14:33:19
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Katarina Saillove :
My husband texted me trying to set up a second date that weekend before he even drove out of the parking lot. I was busy the rest of that weekend but we went out the VERY next weekend and texted throughout the week. If you are interested you make it known
2026-06-01 19:50:43
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gothhippiecrafts :
Several weeks and they have seen each other once....I kinda get where she is coming from
2026-06-02 10:24:49
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GemAstrology :
a couple of messages explaining you are busy with work would do
2026-06-01 17:27:46
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👑Queen👑 :
Weeks of no second date is weird as hell
2026-06-03 11:25:55
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Yo :
Okay so communicating that you are busy at work but giving a reference of some time when you might be free is allllll that was needed. Super busy at work - can probably make a weekend day work either this weekend or next - I’ll let you know!
2026-07-29 17:53:20
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Chloe 🐝 :
So he didn’t speak to her all week and then asked her on Friday night if she wanted to go out on Saturday? Less than 24 hours notice? Sorry but I wouldn’t still have Saturday free by that point anyway, if you don’t ask at the start of the week that spot gets taken by something else. You can’t sit around wasting 50% of your weekend because someone MIGHT want to do something
2026-06-19 09:23:49
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Trãpgāngbėatz :
“Understood, I wish you the best.” Block and delete. It’s as simple as that
2026-06-03 21:56:12
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Cosmic Monkey :
Weeks between the first and second date doesn’t give “I’m into you” vibes
2026-06-18 14:42:42
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the_pretty_villain_ :
She over explained, I already knew she was still interested from that alone
2026-06-01 23:42:24
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Jeanette Cummings :
SHE JUST WANTED CONSISTENCY
2026-06-07 16:28:55
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sigmafucker𖤐🪽 (seeing aespa) :
saying this while actively talking to other guys is so weird like i was on her side until i heard that
2026-07-27 03:52:46
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Ryan Oundo :
Idk she kind of told you actually why she isn’t interested anyone, take or leave.
2026-06-04 03:23:47
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jangaa42 :
he thought sbe would be desperate
2026-07-20 16:26:50
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.. :
Its not rushing a relationship, its the lack of effort to get to know someone, plan a date etc. If you are like this from the start you'll be like that always
2026-06-02 20:14:14
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Princess Anastasia of Russia :
okay I’m glad it ended well but I feel like both of them made a big deal out of nothing
2026-06-01 17:22:21
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