@redditstories_doggo: I thought I hit it off pretty well with a girl on our first date, and she said yes to a second, but now she's saying she lost interest because I was acting "flaky and uninterested" because I've been busy with work. Plus one update. Posted by: u/flakysuitor #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #redditdoggo #minecraftparkour #storytime
taking 3 weeks to figure out a second date is crazy… idk if i misunderstood the story or not
2026-06-01 15:21:30
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laris :
“I’ve been busy with work **and friends**” yeah right there
2026-06-02 17:45:24
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𐙚 ‧₊˚ ⋅ ଘ(*. .) ₊˚ :
I think she's vaild. Even if it was only a few weeks or whatever, if she feels that your distant, that's how she feels 🤷🏾♀️Like she said, OP and the girl are just not compatible and that's okay.
2026-06-01 15:12:45
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Sugarplumprincess <3 :
But she’s not asking for a commitment? OP mentioned “weeks” of no talking? To build a bond there needs to be consistency & a conversation?
2026-06-01 21:25:26
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user2539392358570 is cute :
no cuz this was the most level-headed message from her possible
2026-06-02 14:33:19
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Letum :
imo she's totally valid
2026-06-01 15:03:46
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#1 chiaki nanami lover :
it would've been fine if they were just incompatible but it was worrying that his first instinct was to demonise her. glad he learned
2026-06-01 15:59:43
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wawa⁷ :
They went on ONE (1) date and he tried scheduling the second one last minute. If you’re that busy then maybe it’s not the right time to date at all.
2026-06-01 16:16:03
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zip ⁷ :
she’s not crazy at all. she’s better than me, i would’ve ghosted him
2026-06-02 08:42:42
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Sam :
I think it was pretty mature of her to tell you why instead of just ghosting you.
2026-06-02 00:11:12
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Jasmine's art :
a couple of messages explaining you are busy with work would do
2026-06-01 17:27:46
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Latesha Renee :
She over explained, I already knew she was still interested from that alone
2026-06-01 23:42:24
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Trãpgāngbėatz :
“Understood, I wish you the best.” Block and delete. It’s as simple as that
2026-06-03 21:56:12
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gothhippiecrafts :
Several weeks and they have seen each other once....I kinda get where she is coming from
2026-06-02 10:24:49
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👑Queen👑 :
Weeks of no second date is weird as hell
2026-06-03 11:25:55
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.. :
Its not rushing a relationship, its the lack of effort to get to know someone, plan a date etc. If you are like this from the start you'll be like that always
2026-06-02 20:14:14
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Katarina Saillove :
My husband texted me trying to set up a second date that weekend before he even drove out of the parking lot. I was busy the rest of that weekend but we went out the VERY next weekend and texted throughout the week. If you are interested you make it known
2026-06-01 19:50:43
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Ryan Oundo :
Idk she kind of told you actually why she isn’t interested anyone, take or leave.
2026-06-04 03:23:47
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Princess Anastasia of Russia :
okay I’m glad it ended well but I feel like both of them made a big deal out of nothing
2026-06-01 17:22:21
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gremlin🦝 :
even if you were only talking for a few weeks, you still make an effort to try and communicate and form a bind as often as possible. if you're interested in someone, you put in an effort. she clearly felt the effort was lacking. did you communicate that life was busy? did you communicate anything aside from liking her?
2026-06-02 09:36:59
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Tayla :
Will be copying that message for future use
2026-06-01 15:57:27
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Hannah💜 :
The ending is so cute
2026-06-01 16:41:58
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Theodore :
My bf and I have been together almost a year and still schedule the next date at the end of the current date. If he waited weeks before asking me out again I’d worry he’s lost interest, even now when we’re committed. I’d DEFINITELY think he’d lost interest if it were early days
2026-06-02 19:43:07
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Chloe 🐝 :
So he didn’t speak to her all week and then asked her on Friday night if she wanted to go out on Saturday? Less than 24 hours notice? Sorry but I wouldn’t still have Saturday free by that point anyway, if you don’t ask at the start of the week that spot gets taken by something else. You can’t sit around wasting 50% of your weekend because someone MIGHT want to do something
2026-06-19 09:23:49
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Jeanette Cummings :
SHE JUST WANTED CONSISTENCY
2026-06-07 16:28:55
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