matcha. :
ladies, this is sent by my cousin when I'm blaming myself, stay woke.
"Ghurl if babasahin mo nang paulit-ulit yan, mapapansin mo na hindi naman talaga ikaw yung problema. Hindi ka selfish dahil pinili mo yung sarili mo. Selfish would be choosing yourself habang wala kang pakialam sa nasasaktan mong tao, pero ikaw? You stayed, you waited, you communicated, you forgave, again and again. The fact na umabot ka sa point na napagod ka doesn't make you evil it makes you human. Hindi mo responsibilidad na ubusin ang sarili mo para lang mapatunayan na mahal mo ang isang tao. Love is supposed to be shared, not constantly survived. And honestly, if someone truly cares about you, hindi mo kailangang paulit-ulit ipaliwanag kung paano ka nila nasasaktan. People make mistakes, yes, pero kapag paulit-ulit mong sinasabi yung kailangan mo na bagohin nila at walang nagbabago, nakakapagod talaga. Not because wala kang pagmamahal, but because nauubos ka rin. You keep calling yourself selfish, evil, and undeserving of love, but your own words tell a different story. A selfish person wouldn't spend months hoping someone would become better. A selfish person wouldn't keep giving chances until they had nothing left to give. Maybe the reason you left isn't because you didn't love him enough or not because you're selfish. Maybe it's because you finally loved yourself enough to stop accepting a situation that was hurting both of you. And choosing yourself doesn't mean you aare selfish. Sometimes, choosing yourself is the hardest choice but you also know that if you keep staying it will only break both of you even more. So please stop carrying all the blame. Hindi ka selfish, hindi ka evil It just means you're someone who finally recognized that love should not cost your peace, your self-respect, and your entire sense of self."
2026-06-08 15:51:38