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M :
The reality of being a bunso. The guilt you have to carry when leaving HOME to look for an opportunity to help them. The pressure your siblings put on your shoulder as THE LAST CARD in the family. Little did they know that you yourself are struggling. Those unsaid thoughts keep on getting heavier to carry but you do not have a choice. You have to carry it yourself because you don't wanna add up to their problems. You feel LOST ALL THE TIME, having NO ONE to talk to is SO HARD. The pressure that you put yourself plus the pressure they keep on putting to your shoulder are hard to carry alone, yet you still manage to handle it. It is so easy to give up, and to choose yourself first yet it is so HARD as well. You live life as if it is controlled by that pressure. Still, hoping for them to come to realize that being bunso is not a privilege, not all bunso are lucky to have everything. Hoping that one day, in the most unexpected day or time they'd come to realize that an OKAY LANG is not okay at all. To all the bunso's out there, are you all doing fine? okay? Let's give each other warm hugs. 🫂❤️🩹 Kamustahin niyo naman kami plsssss.
2026-07-28 03:08:08
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SophiaBermu :
yung kahit may pamilya kana, utusan kapa din nila, taga salo ng mga bagay na kahit kaya naman nila ipapagawa padin sayo. na kahit ikaw yung bunso ikaw yung need mas umintindi sa sitwasyon, na parang wala kang karapatang tumanggi kasi bunso ka😌
2026-07-26 05:14:05
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Gel :
me as a bunso, 3rd year college nko living alone at our house with my dog. broken family and both of my sisters have their own family na. sometimes I'm okay because I don't like noisy surroundings but there's a time that I'm crying because I'm lonely
2026-07-20 03:07:02
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misscaramel_po :
The hardest part about being the youngest isn't being spoiled or getting all the attention. It's growing up last, yet somehow having to grow up the earliest. I watched. I observed. I learned from the sidelines. I saw my parents at their best and at their worst. I watched my siblings grow up, make mistakes, leave home, and build lives of their own. Somewhere along the way, I became the one carrying the weight of everything I had witnessed. People often say the youngest child is the lucky one—the one who gets the most attention, the most favors, and the better version of their parents. Maybe that's true for some. But what they don't see is the quiet guilt that can come with being the one left behind. My siblings have moved out and built lives of their own. I know I could do the same. I have the means. I have the opportunity. Yet every time I think about leaving, something inside me stops me. It feels like I don't have the right to walk away because all I can think about is my parents growing older. The thought of them being alone weighs heavier than my own desire to leave. Maybe that's the unseen burden of being the youngest. You become the one who remembers everything. The one who notices the changes. The one who watches your parents become more fragile with each passing year. While everyone else is building a new chapter, you're quietly trying to figure out how to honor your own dreams without feeling like you're abandoning the people who raised you. Perhaps that's what growing up really looked like for me—not being the last child, but becoming the one who learned too early that love can sometimes feel like responsibility, and that choosing yourself can come with an overwhelming sense of guilt.
2026-07-28 08:40:17
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rej :
hugs sa ating mga bunso🫂
2026-07-28 12:58:24
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ᴹᵁᴶᴬ :
bunso is only lucky when they're still kids but not until they grew up
2026-07-28 09:48:13
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💚 :
"huling baraha"
2026-07-27 14:45:16
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K :
but no one ask you kasi alam nila ok kalang pero hirap kasi yung mga kapatid mo may mga pamilya na or nag ttrabaho you know ang hirap kasi kayo kayo nalang sa bahay hindi na happy fam ☹️☹️
2026-07-19 08:30:33
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:
how about kaming mga middle child? in terms of favouritism we will never win kasi nga may kanya kanyang paborito yung pamilya, para kaming mga hangin sa kanilang paningin yung tipong may gusto kang isang bagay pero di mo kayang mahingi sa mama or papa mo kasi kailan man di ka nila pakinggan na parang di ka nag exist sa mundong ibabaw, kakapagod palaging umintindi, mag adjust para sa mga kapatid mo, maybe in another life i was never be a middle child again kaya sinisikapan ko na taasan yung mga marka ko para naman maging proud rin sila sakin kahit kapalit ng kalusugan ko😕😕
2026-07-22 20:15:23
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RJ :
hugs saaating mga bunso 🥹
2026-07-29 21:40:40
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⋆౨ৎ𝐸𝓁𝒾𝓈˚⟡ :
Being youngest is hard cus you know even if youre still young alam mo nang ikaw na yung pinaka huli and mapapanood mong nang hihina na sila saakin 10 + years age gap napin kung kailan may pamilya na ako in the future Hindi nanila makita .0 ikaw yung LAST CARD nila baka hindi ka na maabutan
2026-07-28 10:01:03
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_ai :
kaya as a second to the last sa mag kakapatid, nakakaguilty na hindi bigyan ng attention ang bunso kahit busy ka :< loveu bunso!
2026-07-27 13:07:37
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Aiko :
Ako as a bunso nahihirapan akong makisama sa mga kapatid ko kase hindi ko naman sila nakasama habang lumalaki ako,naging ofw ako at ako naging provider sa parents ko tapos last yr umuwi kami lahat hindi ko alam san ako lulugar,sila nagsasaya ako nasa gilid lang nakatingin lang sa kanila,nung January namatay ang tatay ko gumuho ang mundo ko after a month bumalik ulit ako abroad kahit na ayaw ko pa kaso need ko na magwork ulit at doon ko narealize na wala pala talagang may pake saken kahit nakita nila kung gaano ako nahirapan sa pagkawala ng tatay ko,walang nangungumusta saken,malungkot pala maging bunso need mong maging strong palagi kase walang nanjan para sayo.
2026-07-28 05:41:40
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julien :
masaya siya kasi syempre kapag gusto mo yung isang bagay ibibili agad sayo, kapag nag aaway kayo ng mga kapatid mo ikaw yung kinakampihan kahit minsan ikaw na yung mali, at sayo sila laging nakatutok. pero totoo pala yung sa una lang masaya
2026-07-27 13:46:16
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🥰🥰🥰 :
para sakin,, ung bunso ako ,, pero parang invisible lang ,, d nakikita, mabuti pa yong iba,, mahal cla,, pero pagdating sakin bakit ang unfair,,,
2026-07-25 08:17:00
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Joshuafineshyt🥶 :
literally me right now🥺
2026-07-28 05:44:39
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Mark Tejares :
For me, it's a privilege to be the youngest in the family. However, I am the eldest sibling and bear the responsibility to work diligently for my family's welfare. My demanding work schedule leaves little time for bonding with my parents. Do not view yourself as unfortunate for being the youngest; instead, be grateful for the opportunity to care for and connect with your family. The moments when you ask for baon from them and hear their voices everyday are the ones I regret as the eldest sibling. Please take care of them😭😭😭. miss my mama and papa
2026-07-28 06:06:49
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rexxx :
being the last card of the fam is not easy
2026-07-29 13:33:52
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Diamond Regenta :
Me
2026-08-05 14:22:12
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watermelon🍉 :
i guess no one talks about the pressure of being the youngest in family, and watching your siblings built their own life while you're still figuring out how to built your own.
2026-07-28 12:27:42
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angel :
miss na miss ko na mga kapatid ko ☹️
2026-07-27 23:43:15
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