It’s not either/or. It’s both/and. It’s a balance of both.
2026-06-20 03:19:29
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Omega :
Love is about supporting each other through life. Love means holding together and being a team! Both sides need to bring security and stability for it to work. Giving up is never an option. When problems arise, they solve them together. Ego has no place in a relationship. They always consider the other person before they act
2026-07-29 21:16:07
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Gyver 🇨🇦 :
In the west, those of us in long term relationship fell in love twice, first the emotional and then again seeing all the flaws and traumas. The second is a commitment to the practical. Interesting to hear how you described the Chinese mindset. Thank you for sharing.
2026-08-01 00:13:17
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Big Blue Shark❄️🦈 :
I like the blend of both love and practicality.
2026-06-21 19:12:29
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CL_Ka :
Can we survive together is more practical and real.
2026-07-24 18:09:04
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Jeffrey Pinkerton965 :
I think most of Asia is the same
2026-07-23 07:29:04
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Empathy and compassion :
I have both because I want to survive together without any anxiety or struggles but I also don’t want a transactional relationship and seek true connection and love first.
2026-06-20 17:36:23
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Wiggels&Co :
2026-07-28 12:00:45
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Mako :
人生观截然不同. 最好的办法是找到平衡点,介于两者之间。👍
2026-06-08 10:31:33
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Onome John :
Hi friend
2026-07-31 22:24:12
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Gandalph the white :
Are you happy ??
2026-07-21 12:04:56
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Dee Dee B. :
Hmmmm.. I will make sure my partner know that she and I can survive together 🤞🏼
2026-06-16 10:09:23
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Clint Litoski :
I think you need both love and being practical what do you say
2026-07-23 10:44:39
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Jonathan :
Love shouldn't be about both, if you had to ask those questions then what you have in western worlds and in China is not real love, look for a different name for it
2026-07-29 07:56:53
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TRUE BEATZ :
I know nothing about love
but I know about survival and happiness 😊
2026-07-01 12:43:26
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MJ 🇨🇦 :
2026-06-01 01:50:12
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ambientgrup :
🤗 interesting
2026-06-01 10:41:56
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pgbogdanovic :
hi besuty🥰
2026-06-01 11:15:38
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Shakespeare :
can we survive together. this sentence used survive explicitly. this mean couple have one life where both have to face ups and down together not alone. the love is like that. otherwise divorce is common in every country and culture. but you want to say that no one on the earth know the true meaning of love. because you pretend that only Chinese people know practical love rest of the world is unaware of true love and practical life. you are trying to explain your own views and thoughts about love as per your society norms. money is essential for life. no one care sustain a smooth life without money in any country or society. but what about those countries where poverty is high, unemployment and inflation is on peak but love exist there. it is not what you want to compare. you are defending gold diggers by blaming those couple who are in love but have less money but still surviving together. you should called it gold digging not love. comparing gold digging with society norms. then you will succeed. elite class, rich class, middle class lower middle class and poor class people all do have love and emotions. but all donor have equal wealth and somehow they sustain their loved ones and spent life peacefully. you are showing one side only. do some research and find some more angles to elaborate it clearly.
2026-08-14 19:49:25
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💤 :
the biggest question is why are there so many Chinese on my feed? 🤔
2026-07-31 21:28:46
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Robbo :
when i think about it ,, the survival is more important
2026-06-02 05:04:08
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Andiah Iitembu :
I'm interested in you 💞💞💞
2026-06-04 10:03:48
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varmarobertobahad :
Chinese love best
2026-05-31 23:42:52
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M1DN1GHT ANG3L :
china
2026-08-22 08:36:13
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Yagger Maister :
both for me
2026-06-03 05:40:35
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