@callsignpoundcake: This is obviously not a big deal and everything worked out, but something about this interaction felt so odd to me bc I’d never do that to someone! 😂 am I overthinking this?

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yapwalktalk
Yabadabadoo🍪 :
Rude of her to offer your seat. Weird of him to take it and then not move when you get back
2026-05-31 22:22:36
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oldirtydog
Ben Gail :
Unfortunately it’s right on the margin where it was quite rude but it would be weird to bring it up
2026-06-01 19:46:49
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arabela_bella
Bella 🦋 :
I would have said hey I’m back and stood there waiting for him to get up
2026-06-01 06:00:58
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clarissakampe
Clarissa Kampe :
You’re not overreacting, that was rude of her.
2026-05-31 20:14:32
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mal_eck
Bad Lori :
People play musical chairs in group settings all the time. This is pretty normal.
2026-06-01 20:37:09
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introvertebrate32
Introvertebrate32 :
super rude, but also not something you can really make a big deal about in the moment. I would quietly stew about it for weeks
2026-06-01 18:42:00
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bunzhun00
Lisa Lisa :
That was very weird. I’m super sensitive and I definitely would’ve caused a scene by saying “dang girl! I asked you to watch my stuff not give my seat away.” I think you handled it exactly how you should have and really well.
2026-06-01 08:33:44
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madigirl.123
madison :
Yeah I would be kinda annoyed. Like whatever I’m not gonna loose my mind over a seat, but it’s kinda rude if she told her to move into your spot and neither of them even said anything about it when you got back.
2026-06-01 01:41:04
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momica086
Momica :
You were right. I'd have asked him to move. Also bothers me no one else spoke up.
2026-05-31 22:29:48
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neerfa0
SugarBunnies :
Thats rude, stay away from those weirdos
2026-06-02 21:09:34
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elsbels1234
elsbels1234 :
“Sometimes I can be disagreeable” is the way I start a lot of venting sessions goo girl but you’re in the right here
2026-05-31 21:31:19
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maliaarrayah
🌬️Malia Arrayah🌺🌝 :
I’m too mean for this situation 😂
2026-06-01 00:32:36
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lgmnop
user3703621579100 :
Rude as hell!
2026-06-01 01:01:13
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dfetzer96
Dani :
We are very different people.
2026-06-02 20:10:51
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krislis96
It’s kristine :
as someone who thinks way too much about the small stuff in social dynamics and etiquette, your post and these comments are making me feel appreciated!! i agree, so weird to offer your seat when she should have gone over to sit with her date!!
2026-06-01 15:06:17
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hoelleaa997
Hoelleaa99 :
That’s rude??? What
2026-05-31 20:31:37
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hawkigirl96
Hawkeye96 🖤💛 :
I think if she immediately invited him to sit in your spot, that was unkind that said, if I had been in your place, I would have offered him my spot next to her when he arrived, since the whole reason he was there was to meet and get to know her
2026-06-01 17:43:50
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brees.a.dinosaur
Brianna K✨ :
That’s weird and rude tbh
2026-05-31 20:12:28
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taytoks2much
Tay :
If the group encouraged her to invite him I could see someone offering him their seat, kind of strange that she offered yours tho. But I don’t know if this would’ve bothered me, unless the seat that had been pulled up was kind of isolating from the rest of the group. Since you’re already kind of a plus one now you’re a plus one at a different table. My thought is that maybe since the group encouraged her to invite him she figured you wouldn’t mind.
2026-05-31 20:21:32
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darienpierre
Parlay :
It was inconsiderate of her. Also I think it was a violation for her to bring a hinge date to something like that if that was their first time meeting eachother imo.
2026-06-01 11:47:24
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user793190066
user2160189560056 :
He should have moved when you came back 💯
2026-06-01 22:05:11
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tinaval091
tinaval091 :
I would have left 🤷🏽‍♀️
2026-06-01 22:34:00
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nofoolotoole5
Nofoolotoole :
Maybe next time say something like - “I’m back thank you so much for watching my stuff and keeping my seat warm”?
2026-06-01 16:41:28
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yabba.zabba4
yabba zabba :
Your friend should’ve said something
2026-06-04 18:54:44
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mayawayasofyaaa
mayawayasofyaaa :
I wouldn’t have said anything but woulda been the last time I hung out with them
2026-06-03 21:59:48
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