this isnt gaslighting. This is actually the reality of a parent taking care of their child
2026-07-16 18:21:35
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hanun syihab :
i mean we don't ask to be born😌..
2026-07-14 13:49:48
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🩵🎀 :
I will not have kids so I won't sacrifice anything 😂
2026-07-17 09:13:03
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Kardama :
sounds like my mom she gaslights all the time
2026-07-14 14:02:16
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Anastasia :
Can this show up on my parents' FYP please
2026-07-18 05:57:49
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zara_roms :
Literally filo parents
2026-07-16 22:42:31
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Rina :
see. I don't understand why it's so hard for them to accept the fact that it's their responsibility as a parent to raise their own children. Not compare what they've been through than us, not to say that I really only need them for money when all the money I've ever borrowed from them was for school and school supplies because they never let me out the house with friends so I don't have anywhere to spend that money on. They seem to think that because I'm their daughter, because I'm their child I have the responsibility of growing up perfect to find a better work than them and to start being the bread winner for them. All my life the only "praise" I've heard of them was "grow up smart, have a good job so when the time comes you can buy us our house, our car, even our own land". When I was a kid I thought yeah, I want my parents to have the best life because of what they've sacrificed for me but as time passes, as I grew, they suddenly started being more controlling, I can't be tired after school because I don't have a job to be tired about. I can't ever choose my own school because they did that before and they fucked up so even the college I want to go to got turned down. I wasn't even allowed to find a job unless it's work from home. that's what they've been doing. the only reason I haven't left the house is I'm still underage and even then in my country no matter how old a person is, they'll still force you to be with your family unless you contact an attorney to stop parents to ever be near within their child.
(anyways, I'm just coping, no need to read everything)
2026-07-14 08:51:17
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Heather :
I reposted so my parents would see this
2026-07-16 13:24:18
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AphroDeity :
baby Boomers motto they learned it from church "sacrifice"
2026-07-16 14:57:46
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⋆. 𐙚˚࿔ siyarmie 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
i hope you posted this on blue app so that my mom could see this
2026-07-15 06:49:17
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Valerie with V :
nobody asked to be born. but we can be nice to each other and choose to understand rather than to spread a hateful mindset.
2026-07-16 06:02:31
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Seddy :
Growing up I thought this is normal, like its how parents are & they can use it against me cuz they're my parents but when I became a parent I realized I don't have to be like my parents
2026-07-14 20:20:27
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eramae pbbn :
Both parents chose it but only one did it.
2026-07-13 08:39:48
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Beam :
So many Filipino parents will hate you on this.😂😂😂😂
2026-07-16 09:09:27
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TooTiredToCare :
Mine do this and then they don’t understand why I don’t want kids
2026-07-07 16:26:55
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Marie 🌺 :
i never said this to my child. and will never be 💯
2026-07-13 13:16:50
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Vi :
my mom always say "i sacrifice alot to give birth to you. its either me or you died back then" i mean then why dont you use protection to prevent getting pregnant with me? like hello, if i know, i wouldn't agree to be born either. having me is entirely her choice and now she's saying that she regret having me, like im in the wrong to be born here😐
2026-07-14 23:35:57
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yoshiko✿ :
hello! I'm the retirement plan 🙂
2026-07-16 20:30:26
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...𝓂𝓎𝓉𝒽𝒷𝒶𝓁𝓁𝓈⊹ ࣪ ˖ :
Have this shown in my mom's fyp, better at fb lol
2026-07-14 22:14:53
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Beh-Anne :
I never tell my dog that I have sacrificed my time and money to take care of them so why should a parent tell that to their children with their own flesh and blood?! I totally agree with you. Thank you for sharing this.
2026-07-16 06:34:09
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MKT :
That’s a conversation most parents today aren’t ready for
2026-06-23 14:39:37
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𝔖𝔠𝔬𝔯𝔭𝔦𝔬𝔅𝔞𝔟𝔶 :
my mom always said to me and my siblings when we were fight, plus she's cursing our life too
2026-07-14 23:10:20
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Charlene :
When my husband worked hard and wanted to change to a better car after using the same one for years, his mum said why can't he buy a car for his dad instead. Then she said she raised him but somehow someone else (me the wife) gets to enjoy things. Haha... We are no contact now.
2026-07-16 19:23:38
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notnoeljane :
The sacrifice came because the responsibility was taken seriously. Being reminded that a person gave their all for you just means that you aren’t appreciative enough of what was given to you.
2026-05-31 22:06:43
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ATrain :
They should know I worked extra to get them the vbux they wanted so badly.
2026-06-01 06:34:00
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