@otti_ldn: 5 things I do to improve my confidence ⬇️😊 1. The ‘Now I Have to’ rule -> a way to not let the insecurity win that day. 2. No makeup days -> my brain & heart function the same whether I’m wearing makeup or not. 3. I take complements seriously -> no deflection, just appreciation. 4. Stopped apologising for my appearance -> there is no physical standard to be upheld, we have more to offer. 5. Started making content -> focused on trying to help and encourage others = de-emphasising self. The quote I shared in the beginning I read in @elizabday ’s novel ‘One of Us’ (highly recommend this book and her podcast @howtofailpod 💛) Do you have anything that has helped you become more confident? Let me know below 😊 #tinylectures #benchchats

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jackadamhuscroft
Jack Adam Huscroft :
i am looking at posting on X and maybye tik tok regarding my opinions on football games ive attended (or soccer if your American 🤣)
2026-07-18 17:21:58
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sarahlouise1493
lifewithsarahlouise🎀 :
These are beautiful 🩷
2026-07-19 15:36:13
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cocobutler
Coco Butler (Zoe Johnson) :
Love love love 😍
2026-07-19 12:19:56
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healwithherx
HealWithHer :
You have a very calming energy ❤️
2026-07-19 12:28:49
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xxobineshyy
turtlexshii :
this is reach me so well, oh God i really need someone to tell me this. thank u soooo muchhhh. love you! 💓
2026-07-19 10:25:17
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peanutbuttergly
peanutbuttergly :
you are so beautiful
2026-07-19 03:47:51
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sillylittlebookss
sillylittlebooks :
This is my first impression of you and i loveeee!! What a lovely refreshing video💛
2026-06-01 21:31:30
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briannakateart
briannakateart :
You have such a gentle vibe
2026-06-03 00:46:03
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ssbom
Ssbom :
What a lovely first introduction of you 😌🥰
2026-06-08 18:00:07
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ohmygodesther
e s t h e r :
My little mantra that use to encourage my self is that if i want to do something but i feel like i’m scared to do it (bcs of anxiety), that means there’s a good chance that i should do it. And after actually doing that the fear that i had seemed so small and didn’t even matter bcs it was all just in head and it feels good and relieved just to experience something that i’m scared to do. I love when i proved my assumptions were wrong☺️
2026-06-03 06:28:51
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moony_._._3
Moony :
I feel like everyone is better then me and i meaaann EVERYONE🫠
2026-06-03 21:23:40
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alexandra.aslund
Alexandra :
I need to start doing this!
2026-06-06 18:24:18
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silver_lady83
silver_lady :
i try to smile to myself everyday truly, as if i see my favorite person or a person im smitten with
2026-06-06 09:18:11
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annekarubin
Anneka :
The not apologising for how you look really resonated
2026-06-05 12:08:01
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mzmimi_flakes24
mzmimi_flakes :
I like the "now I have too rule" and I'll start doing that cuz I always allow my insecurities stop me from posting, wearing or saying what I really want. not anymore 😁
2026-06-03 20:12:36
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fanni_sz3
Fanniii :
Such beautiful thoughts. Support support! ✨🌸
2026-06-02 17:38:41
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euge.sobrino
euge :
I absolutely love this!! 🩷 Another thing i’ve noticed helps is keeping the promises you make to yourself. Every time I do the things I said I would, I feel my confidence and self esteem grow so much 🫶🏼
2026-06-06 17:07:33
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studywithem4
studywithem :
Repost because these are lovely tips 💕
2026-06-29 20:24:26
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heyhollychase
Holly Chase :
So beautifully said
2026-06-01 22:15:14
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loveruser19_
loveruser19_ :
you are so beautiful inside out thank you for the reminder❤️❤️
2026-06-03 03:54:53
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aranunu_
nunu :
Thank you 🫶 this means a lot
2026-06-04 18:10:35
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valevar_94
𝚅𝚊𝚕𝚎𝚎𝚗𝚋𝚎𝚛𝚕𝚒𝚗 :
Omg i cried, thank you so much for this. I have been struggling with this the past months and Ive been wanting to change and improve my confidence and feel myself back and I will for sure use all of this on my daily life 🫶🏻✨
2026-06-16 20:30:31
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cindyinmelbourne
Cindy in Melbourne 🩷 :
I stopped because I like how you talk and I am thankful I heard everything u said. ✨
2026-06-23 04:45:29
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ph.skincareuk
ph Skincare - Acne & Aging 🌿 :
Oh I love this
2026-06-01 08:14:00
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sou._.desu
Sou<3 :
This is soooo refreshing and honestly needed it
2026-06-06 23:43:08
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