Jordan | Somatic Attachment
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Girlwithaboot :
This is me right now! I have this guy who is definitely into me but doesnt text all the time and old me would be spiraling now I am like ok I will do my thing he does his
2026-06-02 18:03:32
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melliesmelanie :
Trust that everything is unfolding exactly how it’s supposed to. If it’s meant for you it will always be for you.
2026-06-04 02:02:14
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MsJlong27 :
Me and chat conversations! 😩😂 Glad to know I’m not the only one
2026-06-09 12:28:04
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Sahara’s 🌏 :
This is such good advice for anxious attachment
2026-06-01 01:41:13
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Andrea :
I think Im in a slow burn now after being in chaotic love bombing relationships. I think Im an anxious attachment girly, and I've noticed my mind kicking into overdrive if he doesn't text at certain times, etc. He's been nothing but consistent, kind, makes plans, etc.....but man that can feel so odd after having the exact opposite
2026-06-02 16:08:41
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🌸SIREN HIGH PRIESTESS🌸 :
this was me, I'm now so secure. He was also so patient, and I think it's because he simply liked me enough to be patient. We're in a better place. One would say our relationship has no spark but it's actually filled with so much warmth. I'm so relaxed and happy. ☺️
2026-06-01 19:19:33
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Kendall :
ok but I literally think he doesn't like me bc it's all so... nonchalant.
2026-06-02 23:52:30
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mellowraisin :
I think I’m in a slow burn. I feel calm with him we are friends/coworker for the last 2.5 years. This year it became more romantic. About 6 weeks ago I flirted with him and now I think we mutually like each other. The only thing is he hasn’t escalated to outside of work so ask me on a date. He’s great when we work together. He had alluded he’s inexperienced and has never had a GF before so I think that’s what’s going on. I really want to be courted but not sure how much patience i have left. When I just want him to ask me out. The slow burn is real though 😭
2026-06-01 19:31:35
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🪬 purrriodt 🐱 :
I realized it's the mentality of having to fix and make sure everything is OK that drives the anxiety. it doesn't feel safe letting things be or to breathe. I feel like it comes from a place in childhood where I was made to fix problems by having to check in and change my behavior instead of feeling safe to be me. so the healing move is not so much about being more patient or being more kind or more x/y/z. it's really just stepping back into myself and knowing that a lot of things in life is chaotic and can't be fixed. let ppl be, let them experience life on their own terms, if we align then that's wonderful, but if we don't then that's OK too. let ppl be. and the more you step into yourself, the more easier it becomes to enjoy yourself again. cause I'm not stressing out wondering what version of myself to be. I can just breathe and be myself, therefore it's easier to let ppl be themselves and breathe
2026-06-02 15:47:52
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Zoe <3 :
Slow burns can be incredibly healthy relationships, but if the uncertainty is coming from your partner not giving you clarity in where you stand and not being direct about how they feel- ask the difficult questions, sometimes your anxiety is just your gut feeling.
2026-06-09 21:30:45
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j danielle :
Thank you for this. I feel like the internet usually gives terrible dating advice and treats constant communication and unlimited access as substitutes for real intimacy. Slow-burn relationships definitely challenge the way we think relationships should develop, but it’s refreshing to be with someone who calms your nervous system instead of making you anxious for the sake of excitement
2026-06-04 13:16:25
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jaycoope_ :
Congratulations and thank you for the wisdom!!!!
2026-05-31 22:00:02
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ree :
these are beautiful reminders for anxious babies, thank you❤️
2026-06-01 22:38:36
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Ellie (Mahi‘s version) :
omg I needed this right now 🥺 I am always trying to figure it out right now because sometimes I feel so unsure
2026-06-01 11:30:49
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Sherise Shirley :
All of these are SO GOOD. “Safety feels unfamiliar 😮💨”
2026-06-07 04:59:11
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Mads :
I needed this 🙂↕️
2026-06-10 04:00:58
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Ki 🤍 :
putting myself and god back as first priorities were the biggest game changers. when you're getting to know someone/dating its almost natural to priorities them and care about them more etc etc so you end up overthinking because ur fixated on them. stop, breathe and refocus ur energy and attention 🙏❤️
2026-06-03 15:51:19
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ER IN 💋 :
Space is safe !
2026-06-03 01:19:19
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MissNobody :
Welp I blocked him cuz I aint got time for that😅
2026-06-03 14:28:11
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Shereen :
congratulations!
2026-06-01 08:53:51
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silky :
Yay congrats. Your videos make me feel so seen 🙏🏾
2026-05-31 21:21:07
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esmé :
what are your thoughts on this perspective may only have come from the security/connection you eventually found? a part of the journey and all of finding the right person?
2026-06-02 14:37:48
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Jaelyn B. :
I’m definitely an anxious attachment with some hints of avoidant. But this spoke to me. This guy and I are in nursing school together. We’ve been on one date and we both agreed to take things slow. But I’m so used to jumping the gun cause all my past relationships were like that. I just have trouble discerning danger from my own anxiety when it’s really just a healthy connection. But I love this advice!
2026-06-02 10:50:49
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marocanitude :
sorry didn't listen I kept looking at that GORGEOUS ring ! congrats🤩🤩
2026-06-01 19:10:37
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yadri :
Oh my gosh congratulations!! You give me so much hope 🥹🥹
2026-06-02 05:54:57
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