Ppl would make me feel bad about doing things for myself instead including my kids all the time and my answer would always be. You can’t pour from an empty cup and you have to cater to yourself as an individual
2026-05-31 21:45:38
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zahra313125 :
I am so glad you clapped back bc the comments on that other video were NOT IT 😮💨
2026-05-31 22:16:30
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1tash_a :
PREACHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! Louder for the mama’s in the backkkk! They needed to hear you sis 👏🏽👏🏽
2026-05-31 21:52:15
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Bria | 🦂 :
✨Exactly! ✨ a good mom is the mom is who is able to show up in different seasons in whatever way is best for you + the child!
2026-06-01 06:20:50
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Stephany | Travel Advisor :
Whew. I had so much guilt when I left my kids with my parents (for 3 months) to pursue a career that would ultimately put us in a better position. 20 years later, we are all just fine and my kids still love me.
2026-05-31 22:24:07
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Enga :
Also like… systems need to be created to support mothers, especially single mothers better than what now exists. How are systems meant to be created when we’re constantly doing what has been tried and true ( and it doesn’t work) ? You breaking out of a mold imposed onto you by the patriarchy’s ideas of motherhood doesn’t serve you when the patriarchy FAILS mothers, fails women period. for women to have the opportunity to reach our fullest potential we have to break these molds and give permission. What you’re doing is breaking a mold and from that creating new systems. What you’re doing is creating space for new systems to be created and idk I don’t have kids yet but I think that’s really important. That’s the world I hope exists for me when I become a mother. 🤍 sending you love on your journey! 🇭🇹
2026-06-02 07:34:23
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Alisha Williams :
Literally this. I neverrrr understand the “find yourself first” comment bc at 35 ive found myself at least 10 times now 😂 its never ending
2026-06-01 02:43:06
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Kiana Tiese :
Running to keep up so I don’t get left behind! Yessss momma
2026-06-01 07:56:22
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Janice Moore :
Are to staying long term and she will move or are you moving back?
2026-06-04 04:51:33
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stells_0049 :
I’m going to Lisbon in September, do you have any recs for food or must see places?
2026-06-11 19:26:04
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SheriffnevaDeputy :
This is it. 💜💜💜
2026-05-31 21:30:07
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Golden Girl :
Love your perspective so much, learning to take care of myself so I can be the best version for my daughter!💕
2026-05-31 23:39:09
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Nakyra 😝 :
Needed to hear this
2026-06-01 00:14:44
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pagingdralvarez :
I love this DZOWNN thank you very much.
2026-06-01 01:22:06
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Just Gwen🤍 :
A worddddddd!!!!!
2026-05-31 22:19:40
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T E E :
THIS!!!! every single bit
2026-06-02 00:18:59
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Rose🌹 :
Yassss exactly 🥂
2026-05-31 21:52:54
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Tiara | Boston Content Creator :
Wow!
2026-06-01 16:47:35
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HeyBrini :
Absolutely love this for you!
2026-07-12 17:32:58
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Bougie Mom | Macie :
We all needed this message girl
2026-06-12 13:08:43
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Gabe :
period.
2026-06-02 12:39:18
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user4567753229087 :
Don’t worry mama i respect this. You’ve done a good and a brave thing!!
2026-06-07 06:34:37
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juju nuru honey :
whewwwwwww 🔥
2026-06-01 15:07:48
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