Is there a difference tho between not texting for days. And not replying for days ? Like we don’t have to talk every day but if I ask a question and you don’t reply until like 48hrs later…..I don’t really feel like a priority….?
2026-06-01 00:31:27
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jasey cane :
I so agree and something I’ve just recently realised about myself is I wasn’t actually living in the present moment, I was constantly bracing instead and future tripping.
2026-05-31 23:23:11
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wondrousorbit :
I know you get this often but videos are such a game changer. They’ve really forced me to evaluate myself and have no doubt been super influential in my current courtship process ✨
2026-05-31 22:03:37
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Mystic.Brew :
Frequency and time were my main focus when I was dating at a point where I still had a lot of self work to do. They were covert validation & ways to measure my value in others dressed up as standards. I can see clearly now 😅
2026-06-01 02:18:40
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sassySoup :
It’s not like… I NEED them to text me but like *I* want to talk to them and *connect* with them 😔 light stuff. Ya know? Save the good stuff for when I see them but still. Idk finding a balance is hard
2026-06-03 21:45:52
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Julie Martin :
Maybe you’ve covered this and I haven’t seen it yet, but I need some sanity applied to setting standards. What are reasonable and loving standards to have for someone? I feel like I’ve either tried to control
2026-06-05 15:15:39
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aussiegirl1072 :
I agree with you 💯
2026-05-31 21:44:19
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akrizz :
you've saved my life!
2026-06-02 19:00:15
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Marilyn Cano :
Girl I get anxiety sometimes and hearing you brings me back to calm ☺️
2026-06-01 23:48:21
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whosent4u :
i feel like we’ve been trained to treat other ppl like employees at the validation factory
2026-06-04 21:34:23
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Hermela :
Thank you girl,I'm taking notes girl and you'll never guess where I'm watching you from.
2026-05-31 21:45:44
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maxxmgmd :
do you have any videos on guy culture, and being in a relationship with someone whose friends undermine your relationship?
2026-06-01 20:11:10
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mitchskinner742 :
standards are set on oneself by oneself. if you start setting standards into other people for them to live up to that's control. example, I don't have sex before marriage. that's a perfectly fine standard. you do not have sex before your hair. a very controlling standard.
2026-06-01 12:54:30
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