I feel bad when I do this. I’ve been working on just listening
2026-06-03 11:36:47
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Bec’s Realm ✨💖✨ :
I try & stop myself from doing this all the time. And it’s hard af
2026-06-10 01:19:24
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me.mini19 :
So tired of trying to “get along” with others instead of trying to just be me.
2026-06-11 03:09:26
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マッシュとたまに妻 :
This looks ai generated
2026-06-10 02:08:36
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beeallard21 :
Exactly, I’m not one upping you , I’m relating .
2026-06-02 16:26:12
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LaurenK :
What do you say back instead then?
2026-06-09 11:45:27
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Muchacho :
I absolutely hate how in every convo when somone is saying something about themselves I have to consciously process *does this sound self centred? Will saying this make the person want to retract from the convo?* it is SO exhausting, which is why it’s nice to have friends that are also divergent
2026-06-10 07:33:28
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Sonya :
wow ai is getting good
2026-06-01 06:56:08
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Kar :
So I’m neurodivergent
2026-06-01 02:52:36
4
WhiteRabbitt :
I thought relating experience was a great listening and bonding trait.
2026-06-10 21:28:00
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Melanie Mary :
I expect my friends to tell me their similar stories
2026-06-03 18:26:15
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odeexxbricks :
This is ai
2026-06-06 01:26:32
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LGW💕 :
Ai
2026-06-09 17:33:17
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Carissa Kay :
Exactly. I do this all the time. ❤️
2026-06-01 18:36:57
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Tifanie the Diamond :
its me saying I relate.
2026-06-02 17:03:49
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i_am_rain07 :
I am guilty of this said thing, people always get annoyed at me for doing so
2026-06-10 20:29:07
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lyric🇨🇦 :
That's largely because we are also empaths...so when we can connect via shared experience it tells our brain that someone FEELS the same way we do.
2026-06-10 00:18:13
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🇨🇦 JT1980 :
it's because we get misunderstood so much that when we understand others we want them to 110% feel heard and understood. The best way is to show shared experience... I loathe when others think people are 1 upping them... and on that subject why is your experience so much more important than anyone else's ? never got that... " I was talking about me" ok and I'm talking about me as well ... what's the issue?
2026-06-10 20:47:35
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Just-Me🇨🇦👱♀️ :
I am not trying to one up you, I am empathizing with you
2026-06-10 00:09:58
2
Whitney Collister :
I have to tell my brain to actively LISTEN and I can, now, but it took my a lifetime to learn. It drains me if I have to do it too long, but it's (mostly) worth it
2026-06-09 12:19:04
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AngelaFromTheMira🇨🇦 :
I wish people knew this
2026-06-09 10:30:33
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TimTamz :
I would do this all the time. but I've been trying so hard not too cause people get pissed off with me
2026-06-10 02:16:03
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Melissa Steyn :
This hits so loud. I do it too and im always told its not about me stop trying to be a one upper but im really not to me it feels like connection, similarity and understanding.
2026-06-10 20:03:57
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jairo36765 :
Then I always must to say “this is not a contest about who has suffered the most, I just want you to know I understand you”
2026-06-10 14:55:31
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Bev 🇨🇦 ❌✝️ :
I So So guilty of this
2026-06-09 19:39:34
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