I don’t think it’s necessary to call emotional abuse what could just be incompatibility
2026-06-01 18:31:51
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alexianerep :
That is NOT emotional abuse. That is two people clearly not understanding each other
2026-06-02 16:04:10
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1980sbabyy :
People saying they’d be upset if someone called them this early they’d be upset… then use your words and say it’s too early.. or don’t answer your phone.
2026-06-01 16:29:03
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4D Fairy 🧚🏽♀️ :
If someone starts a convo off already sounding dry/ annoyed I just say “let’s chat when you’re feeling better”. There’s no use forcing a convo if someone doesn’t want to talk. It’s not your job to be a therapist or mommy.
2026-06-01 22:38:05
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Pastmadder :
I stopped doing everything. It felt like the only safe thing I could do was lay around the house alone and scroll.
2026-06-01 12:27:42
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selena :
so exhausting ESPECIALLY if you are long distance. i don't recommend.
2026-06-01 17:16:23
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Tanny :
I think some of y’all are taking the example too literally. Nobody is saying everyone has to love morning phone calls. The conversation is about how someone responds when their partner tries to connect with them, not the specific time of day.
2026-06-01 18:07:38
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Feleesha :
its 8am u calling n asking me questions? 😭😭
2026-06-02 08:43:39
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eboni💕 :
This seems like poor communication on both ends
2026-06-01 17:10:01
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Coughing cow :
I dated someone who would grey rock me if I called him, but was 10/10 vibes when he called me, and then was upset I never took the initiative to call him. We were long distance it was a genuine nightmare
2026-06-01 03:03:40
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🥳 :
hey people can be annoyed with you without being abusive
2026-06-01 22:34:48
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justmegs_13 :
A lot of people are missing the point of this. The partner is getting upset because she’s going to do other things instead of talking on the phone with them for hours on end.
2026-06-02 14:17:29
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Merfy ⭐️🪽 :
This is so validating. My bf will literally NOT respond so I’m like “hello? u there?” and he’ll say “I’m listening 🙄 “
2026-06-01 02:55:16
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Chezdomi Studio | Design :
My ex used to do the first half of this and I genuinely thought I was the issue just trying to connect. Always thought it was weird and soon just stopped calling first to avoid starting my day bad.
2026-06-01 13:50:10
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𝒴𝓋ℴ𝓃𝓃ℯ :
“Hey that’s so sweet you thought of me this morning but I actually don’t feel like talking on the phone right now. Could we talk later/tomorrow?” , “Yeah sure no worries I love you bye:)”
2026-06-03 10:46:34
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✿𝒜❀ :
“why are you calling me” or sitting there in silence if you’re not the one talking otherwise is so heartbreaking
2026-06-01 15:30:09
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. :
OMG THIS IS OUR EXACT CONVERSATION, I don’t feel crazy anymore thank you
2026-06-01 23:12:29
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Maackenzii :
Bruh i WISH someone was this considerate to call me early if we couldn’t call later
2026-06-01 18:27:48
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kevin 🪽 :
this isn’t abuse, it feels more like communication mismatching….
2026-06-04 11:37:14
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Leon :
Learn how to read a room, if the person doesn't want to talk leave them alone
2026-06-06 12:04:22
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Heather Shmeather :
That’s incompatibility, not abuse
2026-06-02 22:35:01
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🎀✨ 𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂 𝓓𝓸𝓵𝓵 ✨🎀 :
I think people are misunderstanding, OP says this PATTERN is emotional abuse. Meaning if you consistently behave this way with people to the point where it’s a pattern instead of effective communication and conflict resolution, this is emotionally abusive.
2026-06-01 23:51:03
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orthodoxalienhippie :
OMG THIS TRIGGERED ME SO… sooooooo much omg………
2026-06-07 00:20:41
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max :
soooo exhausting
2026-06-01 19:10:25
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