@buy.back.sundays: When I shared the story about my 4-year-old asking whether it was a mummy day or a daddy day, I thought a few people might relate. I didn’t expect tens of thousands of people to see it. And I definitely didn’t expect to hear from so many families living exactly the same way. Parents working opposite shifts. Families juggling childcare. Mums missing weekends, dinners, bedtimes and school events. People using annual leave just to spend time together. Honestly, I thought our family was one of the few living like this. I didn’t realise how common it had become. It made me realise how many families are quietly carrying the same guilt and making the same sacrifices. And the more I thought about it, the more I realised it shouldn’t have to be this way. Families should get to be families. Kids deserve time with their parents. Mums shouldn’t have to choose between paying the bills and being present for the moments that matter. I know work is part of life. I actually like being a nurse. But I don’t think missing out should be the only option. That’s why I’m learning new skills. Not because I want to quit my job. Not because I want to get rich. But because I want more choice. More family dinners. More weekends together. More of the moments I know I’ll never get back. And if learning those skills can help me create more family time, then maybe they can help another mum do the same. 💛 If you’re curious about what’s given me hope that another option might be possible, check my bio or send me a DM and I’ll send you the free sneak peek. Because no child ever looks back and wishes their parents worked more. They remember the time they got with them. 💛 #workingmum #nurselife #shiftwork #mumlife #familytime working mum, nurse mum, Sunday penalty rates, overtime shifts, shift work family life, work life balance, missing family time, Sunday roast, rugby games, family dinners, bedtime stories, cost of living crisis, overtime burnout, working parents, family memories, quality time with kids, modern motherhood, shift worker life, buying back time, more family time, parent guilt, balancing work and family, school age kids, family first, choice over overtime
Buy Back Sundays | Nurse Mum
Region: AU
Monday 01 June 2026 09:28:36 GMT
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Ilona :
honestly i’m happy my husband is away.
2026-06-02 05:09:42
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Neetu Michael :
💯🙏😢💔..it is heartbreaking while we try to give our kids the best life we end up removing connection, family and bonding its the saddest things
2026-06-02 05:29:27
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Yomamallama :
Yes & on another note, your bathroom looks great. Love the wood with the black and white flooring
2026-06-04 00:36:34
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Meh :
Because we used to be able to survive on 1 income. Both parents working doesn’t work.
2026-06-02 20:59:04
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chikadee :
Yep, hubby works nights, I work days, cross paths for about 1 hour a day, just to make ends meet and be able to manage the kids also. 🫠
2026-06-02 10:50:18
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Dipald :
My 3 year old asks daily who’s watching him today… momma, daddy or his grandparents.. it breaks my heart every morning going to work ☹️
2026-06-02 21:41:30
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RobbieM94 :
I need to take care of my child but first, let me put my camera down, hit record and make sure it’s the right angle
2026-06-02 12:15:09
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Miss B :
Send info please ❤️
2026-06-04 15:29:18
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nela :
my husband works night I work during day it's not easy
2026-06-03 16:59:06
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WarBornViking :
My wife and me understand this all to well. She’s a SAHM to two kids one being a special needs child while I work roughly 85+ hours a week. All of us only getting to be together for about 4 hours a week total. It’s just the way the world is now.
2026-06-02 10:33:25
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SheelaB_OntheBeat :
I just made a similar video like this asking if we were too comfortable with sending our kids to daycare
2026-06-03 21:40:08
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jessyoung1475 :
Our lives have turned like this. The cost of living is ridiculous to the point that I’m working full time my husband is doing overtime when he can our daughters in daycare and we have fleeting moments of family time. It’s insane.
2026-06-03 23:38:55
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Georghe :
I really don’t see how this is a problem or unusual. This is just a version of life the way it has typically been throughout time. “Childhood” as a time to be coddled to was not even a concept until last century.
2026-06-03 14:25:11
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charlie :
corporate life is not for people. its for robots. How do we all tolerate this?!
2026-06-03 13:40:25
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Katie DE-influencer/influencer :
I would give anything to have my husband here every night to help with bedtime to help with cleanup from the day, but he’s gone a lot for work so it is what it is
2026-06-03 14:50:19
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SDRS0521 :
I work M-F, and my husband works F-Sun. My mom works M-Th and watches our toddler on Fridays. My daughter knows if it is a Mama Day, Dada Day, or Gaga Day!
2026-06-02 10:58:29
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Carmella :
There really is no set formula one size fits all. Whatever works for you and your family do that 🙏❤️.
2026-06-04 07:27:25
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The Purple Fox Cottage :
you could probably switch to some medical work from home field if you are a nurse...money might be less at first but would be more in the long run
2026-06-03 23:26:35
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barrybarnard227 :
tell me about it....
2026-06-03 12:46:00
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user7593464547059 :
I feel this to my core
2026-06-03 20:56:50
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Kam🫶🏼 :
Nurse and fireman couple. Send me info please!
2026-06-04 04:28:29
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Megan Mau :
Yes this was the life I lived. My parents were happily married but my mom worked the normal 9-5 and my dad was the night shift at the hotel. They really were ships in the night and basically solo parented until my dad retired while I was in highschool
2026-06-03 22:05:44
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thepersonheretoscroll :
im glad im not alone. my son lives for mummy daddy days. nothing upsets him more than realising dads working night shifts.
2026-06-02 02:22:36
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Bearded bogan :
I spend 8hours a day with my family. 6 of them I’m sleeping.
2026-06-03 04:29:37
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Mark King8920 :
Family game time is really important, no matter the age.
2026-06-03 05:01:18
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