@drlisakleyn: The same fight keeps coming back because, emotionally, it never actually ended. Most people think conflict is resolved when the conversation stops. But your nervous system doesn’t care that the conversation ended. It cares whether you felt understood. That’s why unresolved fights keep reopening. Sometimes the relationship changes when one person stops defending… and starts getting curious instead. Comment “secure” for a free consultation call if this resonates. #relationships #science #secure #securelovelab #drlisakleyn